Tag: independence
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To the Parents Who Complete Their Children’s Homework
Get Pregnant Fast Let’s be real for a moment. We all know your child didn’t craft that intricate model of the solar system all by themselves, so there’s no need to pretend otherwise. And that meticulously printed campaign poster for the third-grade class election? Seriously? You do realize your child was supposed to create that…
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Why I Allow My Daughter to Get Back Up on Her Own
Get Pregnant Fast As a parent, I find myself navigating the often surprising reactions of others towards my children’s falls and stumbles, particularly with my daughter. While my son was encouraged to “shake it off” when he was little, the response to my daughter’s tumbles is quite different. People seem shocked when I don’t rush…
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I’m Done: A Declaration of Independence in Parenting
Get Pregnant Fast By: Laura Thompson Updated: Oct. 14, 2018 Originally Published: Feb. 23, 2016 I’m through with it all. Seriously, I’m done. I quit jumping up from the table every time I finally sit down. I quit folding my kids’ laundry. Honestly, they’re old enough to handle that on their own. If they choose…
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When Will My Child Leave the Nest?
Get Pregnant Fast As parents, we often find ourselves pondering the inevitable question: when will my child finally fly the coop? It’s a topic that stirs up a mix of emotions—from pride to anxiety—as we witness our little ones grow into independent individuals. The timeline can vary greatly depending on various factors, including personal circumstances,…
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I Stopped Overdoing It for My Family, and Everything Remained Intact
Get Pregnant Fast What if you decided to take a step back from doing everything on your own? What if you stopped being the first to change a diaper, fetch a drink for your toddler, or set up appointments for your partner? What do you think would actually happen? Are you worried that chaos would…
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As My Daughter Grows Up and Moves Forward
Get Pregnant Fast Sometimes, I find myself parking at the furthest corner of the lot just so my 7-year-old daughter can feel the reassuring grip of my hand as we make our way through the parking lot. I hold on a little tighter, knowing that with each passing day, she’s on the path to independence.…
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The Bittersweet Journey of Letting Go
Get Pregnant Fast I can still picture the first time you wrapped your tiny fingers around my thumb, holding on as if your life depended on it. That grip was fierce, filled with the innocence of a newborn who believed in permanence. In no time, those little fingers reached for everything in sight—teething toys, stray…
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To My College Bound Son: A Parent’s Farewell as You Step into Adulthood
Get Pregnant Fast As the week approaches for us to send our 18-year-old son off to college, I find myself surrounded by a mountain of “Don’t Forget!” essentials piling up by the door. This serves as a poignant reminder that I have a limited time to wrap up a few last-minute parental duties before I…
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To My Daughter as We Naturally Begin to Drift Apart
Get Pregnant Fast As you navigate the fourth grade, I can’t help but marvel at how quickly you’ve grown. With your long limbs and newfound independence, it’s clear you’re becoming your own person. Your dad and I have always known this day would come, but witnessing your self-sufficiency takes my breath away. Since you were…
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Why We Should Consider Delaying Our Kids’ Departure for College Until They’re 30
Get Pregnant Fast As I stand in the driveway, watching the U-Haul loaded with my daughter’s belongings, a whirlwind of emotions engulfs me. My husband and I hold hands, rooted in place as our minds race ahead, envisioning her journey from Austin to Los Angeles. At 18, she’s set to embark on a gap year,…