Tag: self-advocacy
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I’m Expecting, But I’m Not Helpless: Please Stop Telling Me What to Do
Get Pregnant Fast Ever since I shared the news of my pregnancy, I can’t seem to escape the unsolicited advice urging me to sit down and take it easy. While I appreciate the concern, it often leaves me feeling guilty for wanting to engage in everyday activities. It’s understandable; seeing a pregnant woman tends to…
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Postpartum Depression: When Your Doctor Won’t Listen
Get Pregnant Fast I was unprepared for the overwhelming feelings that surfaced during my visit. As I sat in the bright, sterile examination room, wrapped in a flimsy hospital gown, I felt utterly exposed. When I attempted to share my concerns about postpartum depression, the doctor quickly interrupted with a barrage of questions: “Are you…
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Ladies, It’s Time to Demand What We Deserve
Get Pregnant Fast Hey there, fierce women of the world. Let’s have an honest conversation about something crucial: valuing ourselves, earning what we’re worth, and standing firm in our rights. This might stir up some discomfort and stress, but if there’s one thing we know, it’s that women are tough and ready to tackle tough…
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I Am Mother, Hear Me Roar: A Mom’s Journey of Self-Discovery
Get Pregnant Fast Today, I’m raising my hands in surrender to motherhood. I can’t carry on like this any longer. Last night, my little one decided that 3 a.m. was the ideal time for some late-night TV, and I spent over an hour trying to convince him otherwise. At our Mommy and Me class, he…
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Unlearning the Habit of Apologizing for the Sake of Our Daughters
Get Pregnant Fast My eldest daughter Mia is not yet three, and let me tell you, she’s remarkable. She unapologetically occupies her space, regardless of any temporary disturbances she may cause, like letting out a little gas in public. No big deal! But the other day, something concerning happened: “I’m sorry, I’m sorry, I’m sorry,”…
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The Other P-Word: Why We Need to Rethink Its Use
Get Pregnant Fast In past conversations about societal norms, certain taboo words have taken center stage—the f-word, the c-word, and even the x-word, which I occasionally have to look up. These words, laden with shock and stigma, evoke a mixture of shame and laughter. Yet, amidst this alphabet soup of controversial terms, one particular p-word…
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Essential Skills for Parents to Teach Food-Allergic Kids
Get Pregnant Fast When our son Ethan was diagnosed with food allergies, a wave of panic washed over me. I found myself spiraling into thoughts about his future. “How will he manage at sleepovers, handle dating, or travel abroad safely?” I lamented to my partner, who calmly reminded me, “He’s only 3. We have time…
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You’re the CEO of Your Own Career: Essential Advice for Your 20s
Get Pregnant Fast Navigating your twenties can feel like a whirlwind of choices and uncertainties. In my quest to gather wisdom from women who have been there, I discovered invaluable insights that could have made their transitions smoother and their experiences more fulfilling. Here’s what I learned. Meet Jessica Taylor, 28, Senior Producer at a…
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Doctors Ignored My Childbirth Worries — Now I Stand Up for All Black Moms
Get Pregnant Fast During my first pregnancy, I felt utterly unheard. I was aware of the alarming statistic that Black women are three times more likely to face life-threatening complications than white women, yet my physician dismissed my concerns. I tried to convey the weight of my fears, emphasizing that despite appearing healthy on paper,…