Tag: firstborn
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The Weight of Being the Eldest Child
Get Pregnant Fast I can’t help but think about how you quickly apologized after spilling your juice this morning, and it tugs at my heart. I told you it was okay; accidents happen. But that doesn’t erase the fact that you felt the need to say sorry right away. Have I placed too many expectations…
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Never Be Deceived by the “Easy” Baby
Get Pregnant Fast Picture this: you have a serene little bundle of joy who lights up the room with his easy smile. His caregivers rave about how “laid back” and “chill” he is, and he only drools when teething. Rarely does he spit up, and by the time he hits 4 months, he’s blissfully sleeping…
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The Plight of the Firstborn: A Candid Look at the Real Struggles
Get Pregnant Fast When we discuss the trials of parenting, it’s easy to fall into the familiar narrative surrounding the second-born child. But what about the firstborn? This privileged position often comes with an unexpected burden. The firstborn is typically the recipient of endless attention and gifts—a veritable guinea pig for their parents’ ever-evolving parenting…
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To My Firstborn: A Letter from Mom
Get Pregnant Fast Dear Child, Let’s start with a little heads-up: this might sound a touch sentimental. If you’re reading this now, I can imagine you rolling your eyes and shifting the topic to your favorite video games. But sometimes, a mother feels compelled to pen a letter to her child—a letter meant to be…
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Letting Go of Guilt Over My Firstborn
Get Pregnant Fast When I was pregnant with my daughter, I asked my four-year-old son, “How do you feel about sharing your mom and dad with a new sibling?” His response was unexpected: “Not good.” He quickly dashed off to climb the jungle gym, but I tucked his answer away. Although he was excited about…
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A Heartfelt Note to My Firstborn: Longing for Our Moments Together
Get Pregnant Fast Dear Charlie, I find myself missing you deeply. I miss the special bond we shared, just the two of us, filled with vibrant days of play. I remember the hours spent racing toy cars, splashing colors on paper, and dancing around the living room as our favorite songs played. Oh, those joyful…
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An Apology to My Firstborn Child
Get Pregnant Fast Dear firstborn son, I want to take a moment to apologize for the countless hours I spent obsessing over your sleep schedule. In those early years, particularly the first three, I was often overwhelmed by the need for you to nap. I yelled, I vented, and yes, I even let you cry…
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When Your Firstborn Seeks to Take Charge
Get Pregnant Fast My eldest daughter, Emma, has taken it upon herself to assume the role of the “boss.” At just 8 years old, she often declares her intentions to be the mother—not just any mother, but the mother. This curious ambition leaves me pondering: is it a reflection of my parenting shortcomings, or is…
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To My Firstborn Son: A Letter of Reflection
Get Pregnant Fast This morning, as you declared, “I’m halfway to being an adult,” I felt a wave of nostalgia wash over me. It seems like just yesterday that you entered our lives, a tiny bundle who changed everything. Your expression shifted as you reassured me, “It’s OK. I’ll take my time.” But deep down,…