Tag: individuality
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Your Kids Are Not Your Kids: The Wisdom of Kahlil Gibran
Get Pregnant Fast I first stumbled upon Kahlil Gibran’s poignant poem “On Children” during my teenage years. I can still hear my father’s voice softly reciting, “Your children are not your children,” among other lines, perhaps reflecting on the bittersweet nature of watching his own kids grow up. Over two decades later, and now a…
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The Insight I Gained When My Daughter Chose a ‘Boys’ Haircut
Get Pregnant Fast As a mother of 17 years with three children, I’ve faced a myriad of parenting dilemmas. Yet, it was my middle daughter, Sophia, who imparted one of the most significant lessons I’ve learned as a parent. My role as a parent is to instill values in my children, helping them discern right…
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Striking the Right Balance: Being a ‘Yes Mom’ Without Losing Yourself
Get Pregnant Fast As a parent, I wholeheartedly believe in encouraging my children to express their true selves—within reason, of course. I love to say “Yes!” to their ideas and nurture their individuality. But I also have boundaries, which I make clear: “I want to support you, but rules are necessary because I’m still your…
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Why Our Family Thrives on Individuality During Weekends and Holidays
Get Pregnant Fast When I was pregnant, I envisioned a blissful family life filled with joy and togetherness. However, the reality of parenting my three children has been quite different from those idyllic scenes I had in mind. The picture-perfect moments promoted in commercials never quite materialized in my home. After welcoming my first child,…
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Embracing My Quirky Side: Why I’m No Longer Afraid to Be a ‘Weird’ Mom
Get Pregnant Fast Updated: October 28, 2023 Originally Published: June 15, 2015 Not long ago, a fellow mom asked if I ever faced judgment from other parents because I tend to embrace my quirky side. Did I worry that my uniqueness would reflect poorly on my child? My answer? Absolutely, yes. I’ve encountered that judgment…
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Why Dyeing Their Hair Blue Isn’t the Worst Thing Your Teen Could Do
Get Pregnant Fast As parents, we all know that the tween and teen years can be a rollercoaster ride of emotions and experiences. It’s a crucial time for self-discovery, and often, that manifests in creative ways—like wanting to dye their hair blue. While it might raise some eyebrows, it’s essential to remember that this form…
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9 Ways I Feel More Alive Than I Did Before
1. Shoes Can Be Different Get Pregnant Fast In my earlier years, I was all about fashion. My outfits were meticulously coordinated, from my top to my shoes and handbag. I felt like I belonged on a magazine cover! But then, societal expectations crept in, dictating what colors were acceptable during certain seasons. Thankfully, those…
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My Tattoos Don’t Define My Parenting Style
Get Pregnant Fast “Does your mom like rock music?” Recently, one of my son’s friends posed this question to him after spotting me at a school event. I couldn’t help but chuckle when I heard it. The inquiry likely stemmed from the fact that I stood out among the sea of parents clad in school…
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Dear Children,
Get Pregnant Fast I see the excitement radiating from you this morning. You’ve been up since the crack of dawn, and I’ve heard the sounds of you engrossed in your video games outside my door. Thank you for waiting until it was light to burst in. In just a moment, you’ll be diving into your…
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When Dress Codes Go Too Far: A Discussion on Personal Expression
Get Pregnant Fast When it comes to school dress codes, there’s a fine line between maintaining decorum and stifling personal expression. Take the recent story of 17-year-old Leah, who faced suspension from her school in the UK for her vibrant red hair. “I was furious at first, then I just broke down,” Leah recounted. For…