“Does your mom like rock music?” Recently, one of my son’s friends posed this question to him after spotting me at a school event. I couldn’t help but chuckle when I heard it. The inquiry likely stemmed from the fact that I stood out among the sea of parents clad in school spirit gear, while I sported my vibrant tattoos, piercings, and colorful hair.
Sure, I can’t say for certain if others around me were hiding their own tattoos—perhaps discreetly inked on their lower backs or hidden behind their sneakers. However, I felt like a living, breathing piece of art, and it was clear that I was turning heads.
Despite my self-assured demeanor, the expressions on some parents’ faces suggested they believed I had just walked out of a horror film. They looked at me with wide eyes, as if I was an alien in their midst.
I understand that body art and piercings aren’t everyone’s preference, and that’s perfectly fine. However, in today’s world, it’s increasingly common to see people express themselves through their appearance. So why the stares?
Ah, yes. I’m a mom—one with kids attending an upscale school district, and I have five small, impressionable children. Society seems to think that as a mother, I shouldn’t have so many tattoos. What kind of message does this send to my kids? The judgment is palpable.
But just for fun, let me clarify the type of mom I truly am.
I am a mom who loves her children
My love is so immense it could bring me to tears. Tattoos don’t hinder my ability to love them.
I am a mom who enjoys countless adventures
We share endless laughter and jokes. Their playful banter is a testament that piercings don’t interfere with our fun.
I am a mom who actively listens
My children know they can come to me with anything, whether it’s about their victories or struggles. And when they need comfort, I’m right there, ready to hold them. My hair and piercings don’t affect my listening skills.
While I don’t often boast about my parenting, I feel the need to share: I give it my all every single day. My appearance has no bearing on my commitment as a mother.
What message am I imparting to my kids? I’m teaching them that it’s perfectly okay to embrace who they are. It’s vital to feel comfortable in their own skin and to exude confidence, even if others perceive it as arrogance. People will always have opinions, so why not be true to yourself?
I strive to see the goodness in everyone and avoid judging based solely on appearances. I evaluate individuals by their character. If someone assumes I’m a bad mother due to my looks, that reflects more on them than it does on me.
I’m not here to dictate how anyone should raise their children. However, I will assert that my body modifications have zero impact on my effectiveness as a mother. I’m not the first mom to break this mold, and I certainly won’t be the last. If you don’t like it—look away! But you might just miss out on knowing a pretty awesome person.
My kids know they are deeply loved, and I’m confident they appreciate me just the way I am. They take pride in who I am, and I’m equally proud of them. Our bond transcends appearance; it’s grounded in love and connection. Yes, parents like me, with bold expressions of individuality, have hearts just as big.
Oh, and in response to that little girl’s question, yes, I absolutely love rock music.
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In summary, my tattoos and piercings do not define my abilities or dedication as a parent. I love my children fiercely, and my appearance has no bearing on the love and support I provide them. Embracing individuality can send a powerful message to our kids about self-acceptance and confidence.
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