Tag: parenting
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Why Motherhood and Perfection Are Incompatible
Get Pregnant Fast Let me share a little secret: I used to be a perfectionist. It’s not that I believed I was perfect, but rather that I felt an overwhelming urge to excel in every facet of my life. I was a people-pleaser, constantly worried about how others perceived me. Everything had to be done…
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Why I’ve Stopped Pressuring My Son About Homework
Get Pregnant Fast Lately, I’ve been reflecting on my son Jake’s approach to homework. He’s a typical 9th grader: intelligent, analytical, and occasionally driven, yet often indifferent. While his grades are decent—he’s snagging a few A’s—his organizational skills could fill a library. They’re certainly not ideal, but they’re pretty standard for his age. This morning,…
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Patton Oswalt’s Daughter’s Heartfelt Insight: ‘You’re the Best Memory of Your Mom’
Get Pregnant Fast When faced with the sudden loss of a loved one, the waves of grief can feel insurmountable. It’s a heartbreaking reality that many of us may encounter, and the emotional turmoil can be particularly overwhelming for children. Recently, comedian Patton Oswalt’s young daughter, Lily, shared a poignant thought about her late mother,…
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You Might Be Transmitting Math Anxiety to Your Kids
Get Pregnant Fast Parenting can be a complex journey, and it turns out that one of the unexpected challenges we face is the potential to pass on our own anxieties, particularly when it comes to subjects like math. This was highlighted in a recent study that found parents with high levels of math anxiety can…
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Marriage Isn’t Picture-Perfect: Ditching the Illusion of Perfection
Get Pregnant Fast Let’s be real: the secret to a fulfilling marriage lies in letting go of that idealized version of what a happy union should be. Wipe that image from your mind—permanently. You might also want to release the fantasy of how your marriage functioned pre-kids, because that era is long gone (just like…
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No, I Don’t Want My Birth Filmed. Seriously, Get That Camera Out of Here.
Get Pregnant Fast During my first labor, I invited my entire family to join me in the delivery room. I thought it would be a heartwarming experience, a day filled with laughter and shared joy. Unfortunately, I was mistaken. As the Pitocin coursed through my veins, and I felt the first wave of contractions, I…
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Mom’s Honest Post Hits Home: Why ‘Perfection’ Is Overrated
Get Pregnant Fast In the whirlwind of parenthood, it’s easy to fall into the trap of striving for perfection. We juggle packing nutritious lunches, assisting with homework, reading bedtime stories, and ensuring our little ones are clean and dressed. Despite our best efforts, there are moments when we stumble. A recent viral Facebook post by…
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How to Change Your First Name in Your 40s
Get Pregnant Fast I’ve always had a complicated relationship with my name, Lezlie. It’s not just the way it sounds; it feels like a constant reminder that I’m overlooked and misunderstood. Studies show that the sound of our names can trigger specific responses in the brain, especially in areas linked to our sense of identity.…
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When Santa Is Real: Creating One Last Magical Christmas for My Youngest Child
Get Pregnant Fast This past weekend, I had a moment of clarity that struck me like a bolt from the blue. As I watched my children lounging on the couch, just being boys, it dawned on me: they are all growing up. This year marks the last time I’ll have a “believer” in my home.…
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10 Signs You’re a Parent on Vacation
Get Pregnant Fast When you’re a parent taking a break, the experience can be both delightful and a tad surreal. Here are ten unmistakable signs that you’re navigating the world of vacationing while managing the joys of parenthood: You dedicate around 90% of your trip to hunting for the perfect souvenirs for your kids. Yes,…