Dining out with family is one of my greatest joys. It’s a fantastic way to reconnect after a hectic day, whether we’re savoring our favorite Mexican or Chinese dishes together or enjoying a quiet moment with one child at a cozy bakery or fast-food spot. Parents appreciate the convenience of not having to cook or clean, and let’s face it—kids often prefer restaurant meals over home-cooked ones. While I understand the excitement of dining out, I am strict about one essential aspect: manners.
Manners extend beyond basic etiquette, like chewing with your mouth closed or using your napkin. It’s crucial for my children to recognize that others are dining too, and the hardworking staff at the restaurant deserve respect. They won’t master this in one outing, so as adults, we must lead by example. Here are some ways I encourage good behavior:
1. Leave a Generous Tip.
Kids can create quite a mess, which warrants a larger tip for their servers. Waitstaff rely on tips to make ends meet. Remember, they are hustling around, balancing heavy trays and catering to many guests. It’s physically and mentally draining work. Be a patron who makes their day brighter—leave a respectable tip.
2. Clean Up After Yourselves.
Sure, messes are part of the job, but if your child spills fries or scatters napkins, it’s courteous to help clean up. Don’t just leave debris for someone else to handle; common courtesy goes a long way.
3. Treat Staff with Respect.
Servers work incredibly hard. If your meal isn’t perfect, remember they aren’t the chef. If they’re slow, they might be overwhelmed. Be kind. A simple smile or a polite request can make their day better.
4. Avoid Speakerphone Conversations.
Using speakerphone in a restaurant is inconsiderate. No one wants to overhear your work gossip while they’re trying to enjoy a meal. Keep your voice down or take your call outside.
5. Manage Your Child’s Behavior.
While some noise is expected, a full-blown tantrum isn’t appropriate in a dining setting. If your child is struggling, take them outside or to your car. It’s about being considerate to others who are there to enjoy their meals.
6. Extend Kindness to Others.
If you see another parent struggling, offer a helping hand rather than a judgmental glance. A simple “Can I help?” or “You’re doing great” can make a world of difference in their day.
In summary, let’s strive not to be rude while dining out. Set the standard for your kids by demonstrating good manners and respect for others. And don’t forget to leave a tip for your server. Now, let’s enjoy our meals together!
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