I know a woman named Linda in her 60s who confidently sports an undercut and adorns herself with oversized earrings. She’s absolutely fabulous. I doubt she ever woke up on her 50th birthday thinking, “Oh no, I’m too old to wear what I love—bring on the polyester pants and housecoats.” Linda is unapologetically herself. She owns her look, seeks no validation, and cares not a whit about what others think. She’s too busy being her vibrant self to worry about the latest trends. And, let’s be real, she doesn’t give a damn.
As far as I’m concerned, you can take those fashion dos and don’ts and toss them aside. If you feel empowered and sexy in an outfit, that’s what you should wear—regardless of what the fashion police say. Heaven forbid anyone tells us we can’t wear horizontal stripes unless we’re a size 00. And let’s get one thing straight: leggings are pants. I will wear those all day long with my favorite flannel, then right into bedtime, because leggings make me feel fierce, and I love it. I don’t follow rules; I break them and wear whatever the heck I want.
Staying confined to some arbitrary fashion box is as enjoyable as scrubbing toilets. Dressing in a way that makes you feel good, irrespective of age or motherhood, is liberating. So if you want to strut to the grocery store in a tiara—yes, the one your daughter made you wear for her tea party—go for it! You’ll bring joy to more people than you realize.
I often hear women say, “I’m too old for this,” or “Should a mom really wear that?” Last I checked, there’s no expiration date on being fabulous. No one is asking you to ditch your overalls; there’s no crime in having fun with your wardrobe. The older you get, the better it gets, so this party isn’t even close to over.
Just because you become a mother or age doesn’t mean you should forget who you were. The clothes you choose can evoke memories of your youth—like slipping into your favorite jeans at 18 or getting your hair done at 23 without needing a babysitter. It feels good, doesn’t it?
Want to throw on a blazer and heels over your yoga pants because you rushed from the gym to brunch? Do it! And guess what? You can indulge a little because, well, yoga pants. If you adore those over-the-knee boots paired with skinny jeans or your favorite leather jacket, wear them with pride! Who cares if you channel Julia Roberts from “Pretty Woman”? If you’re going to turn heads, might as well do it with style.
I once read an article claiming you shouldn’t wear a miniskirt past 35. What nonsense is that? Are we really saying no one wants to see our legs after a certain age? That’s doing women everywhere a disservice. Have you seen Jennifer Aniston’s legs? And what about those shorter ladies who feel overwhelmed in long dresses?
Women come in all shapes and sizes, and how dull would it be if we all donned the same “momiform” day after day? Whether you prefer trendy, classic, or something entirely unique, wear what resonates with you. Don’t let your kids, friends, or even your favorite magazines dictate your style.
If you think you should shy away from the latest trends because you’re a mom or feel past your prime (spoiler alert: you’re not), it’s time to rethink that. Who even creates these fashion rules? More importantly, why do we feel we must adhere to them?
Wear what makes you happy. If donning a particular outfit gives you confidence, that’s reason enough to rock it. After all, confidence never goes out of style. Own it, girl!
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Summary
Forget the outdated fashion rules that try to confine you to a box. Embrace your individuality and wear what makes you feel great, regardless of age or motherhood. Confidence is always in style, so let your clothing reflect who you truly are.