Tag: social skills
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The Unfiltered Truth: My Child’s Best Friend Drives Me Up the Wall
Get Pregnant Fast Let’s face it: parenting comes with its fair share of uncomfortable truths. One of the toughest? Sometimes you have to step back and allow your child to choose their own friends, even if you can’t stand the sight of them. Since my kids entered school, they’ve brought home everything from pesky head…
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We’re Home-Schoolers, and We’re Just Your Average Family
Get Pregnant Fast When I first mentioned the idea of home-schooling to my mom, her immediate response was a skeptical, “Home-schoolers are strange.” She pointed out families we knew who had chosen to leave public education, labeling one as part of a cult and insinuating that another’s children couldn’t read. My husband shared similar concerns;…
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Why I Choose Not to Intervene in My Kids’ Friendship Conflicts
Get Pregnant Fast As our children grow, they inevitably encounter social challenges that can be tough to watch. It’s truly heart-wrenching to see them navigate the ups and downs of friendships, but I’ve made the conscious decision to let them manage these situations on their own. Over the past few years, my kids have faced…
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Are Children Developing the Social Skills Necessary for Workplace Success?
Get Pregnant Fast As I reflect on my own school days, the phrase “social skills” wasn’t even on our radar. We all sensed its importance, though. Some kids naturally drew others in with their charm, humor, and empathy, making those around them feel valued and heard. As a self-proclaimed introvert, I still find myself grappling…
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Moms, Don’t Let Your Kids Grow Up to Be Jerks
Get Pregnant Fast This past weekend at a birthday gathering, I witnessed a young girl—maybe 5 or 6—push a small boy, who was still learning to walk, aside so she could be first on the slide. The older girl’s mother merely said, “Oops! Be careful with the little ones!” while the toddler cried in pain…
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Less Screen Time Leads to Enhanced Social Skills for Kids
Get Pregnant Fast In today’s digital age, many children seem to struggle with basic social interactions. A troubling observation made by writer and parent David Marks is the noticeable lack of eye contact among kids when interacting with adults. Initially, he assumed this was just typical shyness that would fade with age. However, after discussing…
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Let’s Take a Step Back During Playdates
Get Pregnant Fast When I was a child, playdates were uncomplicated gatherings—if they could even be called that. It was as simple as going to a friend’s house and saying, “Hey, want to play?” to which they’d respond, “Sure!” Then we’d run around outside, build a fort in the basement, or dive into a video…
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Stop Putting Pressure on Shy Kids: A Parent’s Perspective
Get Pregnant Fast Once my kids become familiar with someone, their personalities shine bright. They compete for attention, dancing, singing, and enthusiastically explaining their toys and how they work. It’s heartwarming to witness their joy and affection towards my friends. However, when it comes to meeting new people, my children don’t exactly roll out the…
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Moving Doesn’t Have to Be a Nightmare for School-Age Kids
Get Pregnant Fast As my mother set the table for dinner, my father paused to share news that my siblings and I had grown all too familiar with. “I’ve received a promotion! And guess what? We’re off to Texas! Isn’t that thrilling?” While my younger siblings cheered enthusiastically, my 11-year-old self rolled my eyes, pushing…
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Why Grounding Isn’t Part of Our Parenting Approach
Get Pregnant Fast As my children transition into their teenage years, our approach to discipline has evolved. Let’s be real: a 12-year-old doesn’t quite fit in the time-out chair anymore. Instead, we’ve tailored our discipline methods to align with their individual personalities, aiming to turn misbehavior into teachable moments. I’ve often heard that every child…