Tag: work-life balance
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When Mom Takes on the Financial Role, and the Health Insurance Dilemma
Get Pregnant Fast I found myself stuck in a job I didn’t enjoy, knowing from the very beginning of our relationship that I would likely become the main provider in our partnership. (I cringe at the term “breadwinner”—and it’s not because I have anything against gluten.) I put in those long hours to transform my…
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My First Day Back at Work: A Memoir of a Stay-at-Home Mom’s Transition
Get Pregnant Fast Updated: May 14, 2023 Originally Published: March 20, 2010 As I prepare for my first day at a new job, I’ve meticulously picked out my outfit, packed a delicious lunch, set aside my favorite mug for a much-needed coffee fix, and even cleaned my car for the commute. I’m feeling ready to…
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Maternity Leave is Not ‘Me’ Time
Get Pregnant Fast If you’ve been through maternity leave, you understand it’s hardly a leisurely break. Caring for a newborn while recovering from childbirth—whether it’s a vaginal delivery or a c-section—is far from a vacation. Unfortunately, many fathers receive little to no paternity leave, leaving new mothers to shoulder the burden alone. Meghann Foye, author…
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Please Don’t Envy My Pristine Home
Get Pregnant Fast As a mother of four rambunctious boys, my house somehow manages to stay tidy. They may track mud, leave little surprises in the bathroom, and think walls are perfect for booger art, but I still keep things in order. While my definition of a “mess” may just be a few dishes in…
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I Cherish My Children, But I Prioritize Myself First
Get Pregnant Fast Navigating the complexities of motherhood can often feel like treading through muddy waters, especially when trying to meet both familial and societal expectations. At some point, you might catch a glimpse of yourself in the mirror and wonder, “Who is this person?” You may have been feeling lost, overwhelmed, and merely surviving…
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Navigating the Fine Line Between Structure and Chaos in Parenting
Get Pregnant Fast In the world of parenting, finding the right balance between structure and chaos can feel like an ongoing struggle. Today, I find myself weary of being the one who manages every detail. I’m not trying to complain or point fingers; rather, I’m deeply thankful for the journey of motherhood. I appreciate all…
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The Experience of Being Married to a Stay-at-Home Dad
Get Pregnant Fast My husband has taken on the role of a stay-at-home dad, a new and likely temporary shift in our family dynamic. After retiring from the military, he’s enjoying a break before stepping into the civilian workforce. While I manage my freelance work and provide for our family, he handles the daily tasks…
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You’re the CEO of Your Own Career: Essential Advice for Your 20s
Get Pregnant Fast Navigating your twenties can feel like a whirlwind of choices and uncertainties. In my quest to gather wisdom from women who have been there, I discovered invaluable insights that could have made their transitions smoother and their experiences more fulfilling. Here’s what I learned. Meet Jessica Taylor, 28, Senior Producer at a…
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Day 5 of Unemployment: Embracing Motherhood
Get Pregnant Fast For the past couple of years, I’ve been trying to convince myself that I was mastering the art of juggling work and family life. Prior to 2013, I was self-employed, basking in the freedom of working just a few hours a day and squeezing in yoga sessions and leisurely strolls through the…
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Homework Is Overrated – Here’s Why I’m Done with It
Get Pregnant Fast I once stood in your shoes. Exhausted, undervalued, and overwhelmed. For a decade, I dedicated my life to teaching elementary school. Back then, as a single woman without kids, I held firm beliefs about homework. I thought it was essential for children to get accustomed to it. But now, as a parent,…