Tag: independence
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Facing the Fear of Leaving My 9-Year-Old Alone for the First Time
Get Pregnant Fast Last month, my 9-year-old son had a day off from school—one of those dreaded conference days. After dropping his little brother off at preschool, I found him glued to his video game. I felt a strong urge to step out for a quick run. Normally, I wouldn’t even think about leaving him…
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Braving Solitude: A Journey Towards Independence
Get Pregnant Fast I’ve never regarded myself as a truly independent individual. As a teenager, I devoured the pages of Jane Eyre, yearning to emulate her fierce spirit and resilience, yet I always believed I lacked that same inner strength. I married at a young age—just nineteen. I had quickly advanced through school, and my…
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Hey, Parents of Young Kids: It Will Get Easier
Get Pregnant Fast Once upon a time, a stomach bug invaded my home like an unstoppable force, wreaking havoc on everyone in its path. My two oldest, ages 8 and under, were just beginning to recover when, in the dead of night (because when else would it happen?), my 3-year-old dashed into the bathroom. Clueless…
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Essential Life Lessons I Overlooked Before My Daughter Headed to College
Get Pregnant Fast As the summer dwindled and the countdown to my daughter’s college departure began, I found myself immersed in a flurry of preparation. I crafted shopping lists, packing lists, registration forms, and move-in checklists. If you’re feeling lost in this whirlwind, a quick online search reveals countless resources. I approached these guides with…
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Is Your 6-Year-Old Prepared for First Grade?
Get Pregnant Fast As a child, my mother has a vivid memory of her experiences in first grade in Montreal. At just six years old, she would make the solo trek to school each day. On occasions when she found herself running late, she devised a clever plan: she would take a shortcut through St.…
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Growing Up: A Journey of Letting Go
Get Pregnant Fast For years, he resisted the idea. “What do you think about getting a new area rug?” I’d suggest, gesturing toward the worn-out baby blue piece adorned with fire trucks that sat on his floor. “And maybe a stylish new lamp?” I’d add, pointing to the outdated one beside his bed. Each time,…
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It’s Official: As a Parent, I Feel Nearly Obsolete
Get Pregnant Fast As a parent, I’ve come to realize that my usefulness has diminished significantly. Seriously—when did my kids grow up and decide they no longer needed me? I know it’s a positive development, yet it still stings a bit. Just last week, my youngest finally got his driver’s license. What a relief! Sitting…
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Why I’m Tough on My Kids: It’s About Raising Responsible Adults
Get Pregnant Fast Being labeled a strict mom doesn’t bother me; in fact, I embrace it wholeheartedly. My kids often refer to me as “mean,” and I wear that title with pride. After years of self-discovery, countless late-night debates, and more than a few tears (mostly mine), I’ve reached a point where I’m comfortable with…
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I Don’t Ask My Partner for Permission
Get Pregnant Fast When my friend from down the street invited me to a ladies’ night dinner with other women in our community, I found myself going through a checklist. I checked my calendar for conflicts, browsed the restaurant’s menu online (and let’s be real, I was also eyeing the cocktail options). I messaged the…
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Embracing Independence: A Journey of Growth
Get Pregnant Fast He approached the cashier with a determination that radiated from him, his glasses sliding down his nose as he leaned closer to the counter. As he placed his order, his voice cut through the soft chatter around him, drawing my attention and causing my heart to race. I couldn’t help but wonder…