Tag: fatherhood
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Understanding the Role of Household Chores: A Conversation with My Mother
Get Pregnant Fast While grocery shopping with my mother and my two daughters, an unusual moment occurred that sparked a meaningful conversation. My mom, visiting from out of town for my son’s birthday, and I found ourselves in the produce section of the store. My little one, Lily, sat nestled in the cart while my…
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Learning to Step Back: Allowing My Partner to Shine as a Father
Get Pregnant Fast As I navigate my recovery from a recent surgery, I’ve come to appreciate the crucial role my partner plays in our child’s growth. While I’ve always recognized the significance of a father’s presence, it’s easy to lose sight of that when you’re the one managing the household solo, particularly when your partner…
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Why I Refuse to Tell My Sons to ‘Man Up’
Get Pregnant Fast Phrases like “man up,” “grow some balls,” and “don’t be such a wimp” are all too common in our society. They strike a chord with me as I strive to raise my sons to be strong and capable, but also kind and emotionally intelligent. My goal is to nurture boys who will…
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Understanding Dadchelor Parties
Get Pregnant Fast If you’re expecting a little one soon, your partner might bring up the trendy notion of a dadchelor party. This idea has gained traction thanks to social media, with many soon-to-be dads sharing their experiences of pre-baby celebrations reminiscent of traditional bachelor parties. The community surrounding this concept is quite divided: while…
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Instagram’s “Don’t Forget Dads” Highlights the Role of Fathers in Parenting
Get Pregnant Fast In recent years, there has been a notable shift in how fathers engage with their children, and the Instagram account “Don’t Forget Dads” is at the forefront of this movement. With a growing following of over 116,000, this account showcases a vibrant collection of photos that highlight involved dads who are actively…
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20 Surprising Truths About the First Year of Parenting
Get Pregnant Fast Navigating the first year of parenthood is a wild ride filled with unexpected moments and valuable lessons. Here are 20 insights that you may not hear about as you embark on this new chapter of life. Cherishing five uninterrupted minutes in the bathroom feels like a mini-vacation. Watching your partner’s bond with…
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Sterling K. Brown Delivers a Hilariously Spot-On Account of Childbirth
Get Pregnant Fast When it comes to childbirth, the perspective of fathers is often overlooked, especially in the celebrity realm. Most dads tend to gloss over the details, leaving a shroud of mystery around the experience. However, Sterling K. Brown, renowned for his roles in “This Is Us” and “The People v. O.J. Simpson: American…
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Dads Experience Postpartum Depression, Too
Get Pregnant Fast In an eye-opening report from the University of Massachusetts’ Journal of Parent and Family Mental Health, it has been revealed that postpartum depression (PPD) isn’t solely a maternal issue—fathers can suffer from it as well. The report defines PPD for both men and women as moderate to severe depression that occurs in…
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A Letter to the Dad at Drop-Off
Get Pregnant Fast Hey there! I realize we’ve never really exchanged a full “hello” during drop-off like I do with the other parents. Honestly, it’s just not something I typically do with men I don’t know. I mean, just look at me—my hair is a tangled mess, I’ve got those telltale bags under my eyes,…
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Why I Want My Children to Understand What a Good Parent Looks Like
Get Pregnant Fast I’ve been navigating some challenging conversations with my therapist lately, particularly around my values and the motivations behind them. She pointed out that many of my beliefs seem to stem from a series of “not” statements. For instance, when asked what I want from my career, I replied, “I don’t want to…