Let’s talk about what it means to embrace failure. I won’t bore you with the gritty details of the countless struggles we faced trying to get our son, Max, to sleep soundly in his own room. It’s akin to narrating the epic saga of pushing a gigantic boulder uphill only for it to roll back down, crushing our hopes time and time again.
Eventually, he did learn to sleep independently. But, as fate would have it—perhaps due to a bathroom renovation next to his room followed by his first cold—Max found his way back into our bedroom. Before long, he was snuggled up in our bed. Now, this unplanned return to co-sleeping is often labeled as a significant failure, with many warnings about its dangers.
However, what they don’t tell you is how incredible it feels. Co-sleeping is a bit like discovering a guilty pleasure you never knew you needed. It’s the kind of joy that can be compared to the rush some seek from substances (though I have no personal experience with such things). The truth is, failing at sleep training can lead you to one of the most rewarding experiences of your life.
When this little bundle of joy, with his tousled hair and innocent demeanor, returns to your bed, nestled warmly between you and your partner, you get a rare glimpse back into a simpler time. It’s a unique pleasure to hear the peaceful snores of a child who remains untouched by the complexities of life. To wake up beside someone who smiles without hesitation, who carries no burden of self-doubt, is a gift of immeasurable value. Max, for instance, always looks fantastic in whatever he chooses to wear, simply because he doesn’t care about appearances. In those moments, I find myself enveloped in pure, unfiltered presence.
In the stillness of the night, as you lie there, you might briefly reminisce about the wild nights of your youth—dancing in lively bars, mingling at art galleries, or sharing stories with interesting characters. Yet, amidst those memories, you realize, with a profound sense of satisfaction, that there’s nowhere else you’d rather be than right here, right now.
You’ve discovered the remedy for all anxieties, the antidote to life’s chaos: the simple joy of sharing a mattress with your child and your partner, while outside, a bustling city continues its journey, with countless souls still searching for what you have already found.
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Summary
Embracing co-sleeping after a struggle with sleep training can lead to unexpected joy and deep connection with your child. Rather than viewing it as a failure, recognize the simple pleasures it brings and how it allows you to cherish fleeting moments of innocence and presence.
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