Dear Children,
This time of year can be quite perplexing for our Jewish family. Everywhere you turn, the vibrant colors of Christmas—red, green, and all things shiny—are hard to miss. You might hear songs about Santa and holiday cheer playing on your devices (though I know you may not even recognize the sound of a radio in this streaming age). Streets are adorned with twinkling lights and festive decorations, and cars are seen hauling Christmas trees as if they’re the latest fashion accessory. Social media is overflowing with creative Elf on the Shelf antics, making it abundantly clear that the holiday spirit is in full swing.
I’ll be honest; my heart dropped when you recently asked about our Christmas tree plans. It wasn’t just the desire for a tree that caught me off guard, but the realization of how I would explain our family’s traditions—or lack thereof—when it comes to Santa, lights, and Christmas gifts. The truth is, you won’t find an Elf on our shelf, and the cookies you wish to leave for Santa won’t be a part of our tradition. Christmas will take place around us, but it won’t be our holiday to embrace.
Every year, someone inevitably asks if we plan to “celebrate” Christmas, simply because it’s woven into the fabric of our culture. After all, Santa makes a grand appearance at the Thanksgiving parade in New York City, and many people have suggested we adopt a Hanukkah bush, just to feel included. Others propose we deck our halls with blue and white lights to symbolize “the arrival of winter.” These well-meaning suggestions often imply that we’re depriving you of something special, and that couldn’t be further from the truth.
I genuinely hope that despite not celebrating Christmas, you don’t feel sidelined during this festive season. As Jews, we have our own rich traditions and cherished moments to create during this time. We’ll gather around our menorahs, spin dreidels, and whip up delicious potato latkes. We’ll enjoy quality time with family and friends, savor delightful meals, and share in the joy of the season. The reality is, we are fortunate to have the freedom and safety to celebrate joyfully, just as your friends who observe Christmas do. Remember, you’ll receive gifts just like them.
While Christmas surrounds us, I hope you recognize that it’s not the holiday itself that matters, but rather how we choose to celebrate. Whether it’s Christmas, Hanukkah, or any other holiday, the essence remains the same: it’s about love, compassion, helping those in need, staying true to our values, and spreading kindness. Embrace family, share good wishes, and offer comfort to those who may need it. This time of year is a wonderful opportunity to reflect on our shared humanity and the importance of connection.
As you navigate this holiday season, remember that the confusion you feel is a natural part of your journey in practicing Judaism. But know that this time is precious not for the trappings of trees and decorations, but for the way it invites us to renew our values and embrace our identities together. You have so much in common with your friends who celebrate Christmas, even if you can’t see it all yet.
And let’s not forget, Christmas has become a day for our people, too—a time for enjoying movies and dining on Chinese food with fellow Jews across the country.
Happy Hanukkah, my dear ones. I love you endlessly.
Warmly,
Mom
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Summary
This heartfelt letter to Jewish children addresses the complexities of navigating the Christmas season while embracing their own traditions. It emphasizes the importance of love, kindness, and shared values, encouraging children to appreciate their unique cultural identity without feeling left out. The letter highlights the joy of Hanukkah and reassures children that they can still celebrate in their own meaningful way.
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