Hey there, fellow moms! Gather ’round because it seems like it’s time for yet another round of mom-shaming. This week, the internet is buzzing about the term “brexting,” a catchy way to describe the act of breastfeeding while texting. Apparently, this is just the latest way we’re supposedly endangering our babies.
The term has been making the rounds on parenting forums, where moms have engaged in heated debates about the dangers of glancing at Instagram or sending emails during feedings. Recently, a segment on Southern California Public Radio (SCPR) has brought this issue to the forefront, with medical professionals warning against the practice, citing that breastfeeding is a critical bonding time for mothers and their babies.
Dr. Emma Collins, a psychologist focused on maternal mental health, expressed concerns that “distracted mothers”—the new buzzword for those of us who dare to multitask—might miss crucial cues from their little ones. She mentioned that if a baby tries to connect with mom through coos or smiles and isn’t met with attention, it could lead to attachment issues down the line.
Let’s think about it: picture a new mom in those exhausting early weeks. She’s likely grappling with the challenges of breastfeeding and might reach out to her Facebook group for support during a feed, or scroll through Instagram to take her mind off the stress. Maybe she even plays a quick game on her phone to stay awake during those sleepless nights. But here come the “brexting police,” ready to lecture her on the importance of undivided attention.
In hospitals across California, nurses are reportedly taking time to counsel nursing mothers about their phone habits and how it might affect their bonding experience. Seriously? If someone approached me in the hospital room to lecture me on my phone use, I’d be tempted to throw it at them!
Here’s a thought: instead of inventing new ways to make moms feel guilty for simply being human, why not focus on the reality that feeding occurs every few hours and life goes on? Instead of experts discussing how Candy Crush might harm infant bonding, wouldn’t it be more beneficial to explore the mental strain of raising a child while constantly being critiqued by society? I have a feeling that study would yield some pretty alarming results.
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In summary, let’s stop the cycle of shaming moms for being human. Feeding is important, but so is the mental health of the mother. We’re all in this together, and support, not judgment, should be our focus.
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