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by Sarah Mitchell
Updated: Jan. 6, 2021
Originally Published: Jan. 6, 2021
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I have a genuine belief in soulmates.
As a young girl envisioning my future, my idea of a fairytale revolved around meeting my husband early in life, falling deeply in love, and remaining devoted to just one man forever. Growing up in a religious family, I was convinced that God had crafted a special man just for me—my soulmate. It was all part of a divine plan for us to meet at the perfect moment.
As fate would have it, I met my husband when I was only eighteen. It felt like the fairytale I had always imagined. We fell in love quickly, and that love continued to blossom. I was certain I had discovered the one God intended for me—my soulmate, destined to connect with my soul.
Fast forward seventeen years, and while our faith has evolved, we still hold a belief in a higher power. We view many aspects of life through a different lens than we once did.
Honestly, I no longer fully subscribe to the idea that God orchestrated our union specifically for marriage. I recognize that there were various paths we could have taken, and this is merely one of many choices that could have brought us happiness and fulfillment.
My rational mind understands this.
Yet, my heart struggles to let go. My husband has loved me so profoundly for so long that it makes me wonder if perhaps some souls are indeed meant to be together.
Despite drifting away from much of the religion of my youth, I cling to this one notion. The thought that some people are created to find each other brings me joy. It feels as if we were indeed meant to be.
Maybe I’m just a hopeless romantic, but I can’t shake the belief in soulmates, whether in love, friendship, or family.
If you know, you know.
When you encounter someone who feels like your missing piece, it seems absurd to attribute it to mere chance or your own judgment.
Certainly, I understand that a successful relationship requires commitment, chemistry, and effort. But there’s something undeniably beautiful about the idea that, on a spiritual level, you may be two halves of a whole.
Who wouldn’t want to believe they’ve shared countless lifetimes with the person who makes their heart sing?
I long for true love to be written in the stars, like a magnificent fairy tale that the universe has to tell.
I’m not alone in this. Why do you think the idea of a soulmate or a love preordained by a higher power exists? Since the dawn of time, people have experienced profound connections, articulating them across various religions, philosophies, and beliefs.
Sometimes, two people forge such intense bonds that it feels as if something greater is pulling them together.
This doesn’t have to be romantic. I had a best friend, Mia, for five years who felt like home. We were kindred spirits, made of the same essence. From the very beginning, she felt familiar. When we fell out of touch and couldn’t reconcile, I ached deeply. Nearly two years have passed, yet not a day goes by without thoughts of her.
I cherish my other friendships, but it’s rare to find one that feels so effortless. This leads me to think that perhaps some relationships are just “meant to be,” influenced by something larger than ourselves, even if they must eventually come to an end.
As a mother of three, I notice pieces of myself reflected in each of my children. In those moments, I can’t help but think that a fragment of my soul is woven into theirs, as if we share the very fabric of our beings. I sometimes see bits of my parents in me and ponder the same.
And, of course, there’s my husband—the soul whose presence inspires my belief in soulmates.
Deep down, I realize that my belief in soulmates and destiny might be as fanciful as believing in Santa Claus.
But I’m holding on to it. I would rather embrace a little whimsy and romance concerning love and connection than lose my sense of wonder. Even if you find the idea of a predestined soulmate to be utterly ridiculous, you can still appreciate any love that makes you feel seen, understood, and secure.
That kind of love is worth a touch of silliness.
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Summary:
This article reflects on the author’s belief in soulmates, exploring the deep connections forged in love, friendship, and family. While acknowledging a shift away from strict religious beliefs, the author cherishes the notion that some relationships may be destined, offering a sense of magic and wonder in a world often ruled by logic. Soulmate connections can transcend romance, manifesting in friendships and familial ties too.