Despite holding multiple degrees in psychology and counseling, I find myself lacking the one credential that seemingly holds the most weight in parenting circles: having children of my own. Friends and even acquaintances have often sought my advice during their personal dilemmas. It appears I possess that rare gift—and sometimes a burden—of being an empathetic listener. Coupled with my natural analytical skills and love for challenges, I decided to channel these traits into a career in counseling over a decade ago.
I dove deep into the study of child and adolescent psychology, interpersonal relationships, and substance abuse issues, ultimately specializing in preteens and teens. Admittedly, this age group poses significant challenges that many of my peers shied away from. Nevertheless, I embraced the opportunity and dedicated years to working with youth ranging from preteens to college athletes. I co-facilitated group therapy sessions, instructed life skills courses, and led personal growth workshops.
Through a collaborative in-school prevention program, I supported over 300 students yearly, working closely with teachers and parents to help at-risk students realize their potential. In the eyes of my colleagues, I became a trusted adolescent expert. However, that respect didn’t always translate to parents.
Given my extensive experience and academic background, one would think I’d be an invaluable resource for parents grappling with the complexities of raising teenagers. Yet, when parents seek my help, they often pose one simple question: “Do you have kids?” When I respond negatively, my insights seem to lose their value. To many, my theoretical knowledge doesn’t hold a candle to the practical experience of parenting.
I can certainly empathize. I wouldn’t take training tips from a dog trainer who has never owned a dog. Similarly, I’d be skeptical of advice from those who haven’t walked the parenting path themselves. Even in addiction counseling, individuals often prefer guidance from those who have battled their demons firsthand.
In hindsight, perhaps I should have pursued a career in pet psychology—yes, that’s a real field! But at this stage of my life, I’m not inclined to chase another degree or venture into parenthood just to earn credibility among parents. Instead, I’ll continue to express my insights through writing, hoping to connect with those who understand that while I may not have kids, I once was a child navigating life’s hurdles. Surviving that tumultuous journey surely counts for something.
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In summary, while my lack of personal parenting experience may make me an overlooked expert, my background equips me with valuable insights that can help others navigate their parenting challenges.
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