Dear Jamie,
You’re stepping into a role that comes with significant responsibility. You’re now in charge of a group of young campers who may not fully grasp the world around them. Their ability to listen and comprehend will often depend on factors beyond your control—like the time of day (they can be particularly unruly in the early morning and just before pick-up), the weather (hot days tend to bring out the crankiness, and I hear there’s no A/C—good luck with that), hunger, dehydration, and a host of other variables. I trust you have a handle on these challenges.
I am confident you have completed all necessary training, including CPR, interviews, and background checks. Right? I’ll be sure to touch base with the camp director before I leave today—just checking in, not stalking! As a fellow parent, I understand the concern for our kids. You might find your own mom a bit annoying now, but trust me, one day you’ll appreciate her wisdom.
This summer will be transformative for you in ways you can’t yet imagine. Many teenagers find themselves unaccustomed to spending significant time with younger kids, and after a few weeks, they often feel a deep sense of relief when they leave. The idea of becoming a parent may seem far less appealing after a few weeks of camp chaos—trust me, twenty rambunctious children are the ultimate form of birth control. Your parents are quite wise for letting you take on this role.
On the other hand, you might be among the rare few who find the idea of parenthood appealing after just six weeks of caring for kids. Just remember, children are best left to those who are truly ready—no matter what the latest reality shows might suggest.
I don’t mean to alarm you with this message; rather, I hope to emphasize the significance of your position. While I’m busy at work, you’ll be creating memories for my children that will last a lifetime, so please tread carefully. Your goal is to be the kind and fun counselor, not the one the kids dread.
If things go south this summer, it could impact your chances of returning next year—and if you’re eyeing this experience for your college applications, you’ll want it to shine. Your role is more impactful than you might realize. Camp counselors hold a unique power—it’s exhilarating but don’t let it inflate your ego too much; your fellow counselors won’t appreciate it.
You’ll form bonds with your co-counselors, which is wonderful, but remember your primary focus: the kids. They will look to you for everything—from sunscreen application to wiping their little mouths after they inevitably get sick from too much candy and the roller coaster rides. Is that really the kind of memory you want to create?
In closing, I believe you’re going to have a fantastic summer. You’ll meet fantastic people and possibly make friendships that last for years. More importantly, I hope my children come home safe and happy every day.
Please don’t view this as a threat; I’m just a concerned mother looking out for her kids.
Best wishes,
Emily, Jack and Taylor’s mom
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