Social media users criticize her for voicing her pregnancy struggles.
Pregnancy can be an arduous journey for many women, often described as an endless cycle of discomfort, nausea, and a host of other challenges. Despite this, openly expressing dissatisfaction with the experience is often met with disapproval. Recently, British reality TV personality, Emma Collins, shared her feelings on Instagram about her current pregnancy, the third in her family, and garnered a mixed reaction.
Collins, known for her appearances on the British versions of The Apprentice and Celebrity Big Brother, announced last month that she was expecting her third child, just ten months after welcoming her second daughter. She now has two children under two, along with a six-year-old, and understandably, she has our sympathies. However, her candid remarks about the downsides of pregnancy sparked criticism from several commenters who felt she should be more appreciative.
“I’m really not enjoying being pregnant,” she wrote. “It feels like it lasts forever. I know I shouldn’t complain, but it’s just not enjoyable. Thank goodness I love giving birth!” While many followers supported her sincerity, others were less than forgiving:
- “#BeThankful. Life’s too short; so many would wish to be in your shoes right now.”
- “If you’ve undergone fertility treatments, you’d likely think differently.”
- “It’s funny how you have two healthy kids and still find a way to complain.”
- “Wahhhh… ladies siding with her are just as lame. You all knew what to expect…Keep crying, cry babies!”
Ouch. That last comment seems particularly unhelpful.
While it’s true that women who conceive naturally often count themselves lucky, they are still entitled to express their struggles with pregnancy. As someone who has faced infertility challenges, I empathize with the complexities of this experience. However, the feelings of one individual regarding pregnancy do not diminish another’s journey. It’s one thing to be sensitive in discussions around pregnancy when someone is struggling, but it’s another to criticize a stranger for sharing their struggles online.
Disliking pregnancy does not equate to a lack of gratitude for the gift of life. It’s perfectly valid to feel physically and emotionally drained during this time. One commenter poignantly stated, “I’ve experienced the loss of an infant, multiple pregnancy losses, and challenging pregnancies that resulted in beautiful children. I HATED being pregnant. I feel no shame in admitting that. #pregnancysucks”
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In conclusion, it’s crucial to remember that everyone’s experience is unique, and sharing those feelings should not lead to shame or criticism.