From online articles to various forms of entertainment, the narratives around working mothers are abundant. While some of these portrayals resonate with reality, they often lean on the same stereotypes—guilt-ridden, exhausted, yet determined women. These clichés don’t capture the whole truth. So, to challenge some common perceptions, here are five realities of being a working mother:
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Work Doesn’t Make Me Feel Guilty
I often feel guilty about giving my daughter cold cereal for breakfast or letting her binge-watch cartoons on a Saturday. However, heading off to work? That doesn’t burden me with guilt. The first day I left my little one at daycare, I braced myself for the guilt trip, but instead, I felt a wave of relief. I realized I was entrusting her care to skilled individuals who were well-equipped to nurture her. As she grows into a curious toddler, I relish the confidence she develops while spending time away from home. Yes, there are tough mornings when she cries during drop-off, but there are also afternoons when she’d rather stay and play than come home. -
I’ve Never Shown Up to Work with Spit-Up Stains
It’s time for movies and TV shows to retire the overused trope of moms returning to work covered in baby spit-up. I fully expected to experience this cliché, but thankfully, it never happened to me. Sure, I’ve had my share of unexpected stains—like snot on my clothes or crumbs in my bag—but spit-up? Not once. -
I Hold Stay-at-Home Moms in High Esteem
The rivalry between working moms and stay-at-home moms is a myth that needs to be dispelled. I once thought that leaving a full-time job to raise children was an easy path. But having my own child opened my eyes to the reality: parenting is incredibly demanding, both physically and emotionally. While my work provides a refreshing change of pace, I genuinely admire the dedication it takes to be a stay-at-home mom. It’s a role I know I wouldn’t thrive in, and I have immense respect for those who do. -
When Daycare Calls, I Let It Go to Voicemail
In the early days of daycare, I jumped on my phone at every ring, fearing the worst. Thankfully, most calls began with, “It’s not an emergency, but…” and I learned that serious issues would warrant a message. Now, if I see a call from daycare, I don’t panic. As long as I check my voicemail periodically, I don’t need to halt my workday for every minor incident. -
Picking Up My Child from Daycare is the Highlight of My Day
It’s no secret that the moment I pick up my daughter is the best part of my day. I love sneaking a peek into her classroom before entering, watching her engage in activities, whether she’s coloring or playing. When our eyes meet and she dashes toward me with a beaming smile, it fills my heart with joy. Even if she can’t articulate it yet, I cherish the moments when she shows me her latest creations or discoveries. It’s a glimpse into her world, and I’m grateful to be part of it.
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