In my everyday life, I have a small circle of mom friends, and I use the term “close” somewhat loosely. I might connect with them a few times each month, but that hardly feels like enough to satisfy my social needs. In trying to understand my feelings about socializing, I realized that I lean towards being an introvert.
When I shared this insight with friends, they were skeptical, insisting that I’m too outgoing to fit that label. However, what they don’t understand is that maintaining that social facade can be exhausting for me. At times, it feels like an obligation rather than a choice. There are moments when I simply want to retreat from interaction, and occasionally, I do.
If introversion doesn’t quite capture my essence, then my admission of being shy will likely surprise those in my real life. I often feel guarded around women and struggle to trust easily. Like everyone else, I carry my own emotional baggage, and it takes time for me to feel comfortable in new friendships.
Interestingly, my online presence is quite vibrant. I run a blog and engage with my audience frequently—sometimes even more than I do with those close to me. Throughout my blogging journey, I discovered that many others share my experiences, with countless individuals navigating similar paths.
Facebook hosts a myriad of groups that cater to diverse interests and needs. You can shop, network, or even find a romantic partner from the comfort of your home. And yes, you can also forge friendships. For me, a particular closed group became my sanctuary.
This group, which was initially focused on blogging and writing, evolved into a supportive tribe of individuals, mostly women, who rally around each other during the ups and downs of blogging. This community is more than just a shared interest; it’s a safe haven where we can exchange our joys and frustrations. We often share personal milestones and challenges that we might hesitate to discuss with friends or family. This intimacy fosters a sense of safety and understanding among us.
Let’s face it, not everyone in our immediate circles will grasp the significance of a technical glitch on my blog or the feeling of having my work appropriated by a larger site. But within my tribe, those frustrations are validated.
There are groups for nearly every topic imaginable, whether it’s parenting, mental health, fitness, or hobbies. The beauty of these online communities is that you can join as many as you like, allowing for a rich tapestry of connection.
Despite the negative reputation that social media often receives, it serves as a powerful tool for building healthy, supportive relationships. Whether I’m venting about my toddler’s selective eating habits or seeking advice on navigating life’s surprises—like breaking the news of a new pregnancy to my husband—my tribe is there for me without judgment.
I recognize that not every group functions as positively as mine, but a lot do, thanks to their commitment to fostering a respectful environment. The group I belong to routinely checks in to ensure our shared values remain intact.
So, when you hear about closed Facebook groups, remember they’re not always about superficial topics. Sometimes, they are where genuine connections flourish and enduring support is found.
This community has been a lifeline for me and my friends—it’s a space where we truly understand each other, and that connection is invaluable.
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In summary, finding my tribe online has provided me with the support and understanding that I sometimes struggle to find in my everyday life. These connections have enriched my experiences, allowing me to be open and vulnerable in ways I could never have imagined before.