As I sit down to pen these thoughts, I recognize that my actions speak louder than my words. I’ve spent a decade trying to model the values I hope to instill in you. With that hope in my heart, here are ten key lessons I want you to carry with you as you navigate this world.
- Respect Everyone: Treat people kindly, regardless of who they are. Whether it’s your principal or the person on the corner asking for help, every individual deserves your kindness. You naturally do this already, so keep it up!
- Embrace Energy and Playfulness: It’s perfectly normal to be a bit rowdy and active. I know I sometimes prefer quiet, but I’m learning to let you be your spirited self. Just remember, while rough-housing is fun, it’s important to recognize the line where playfulness turns into something hurtful.
- Understand Boundaries: When someone says “no,” take it to heart. This is a universal truth that applies everywhere.
- Don’t Hide Your Emotions: You have a rich emotional life, feeling everything from joy to sadness deeply. It’s okay to express these feelings; they don’t make you weak. In fact, embracing your sensitivity is a sign of strength available to everyone, no matter their gender.
- Your Happiness is Yours Alone: You are not responsible for making others happy, including me, Dad, or your sister, Emma. The best thing you can do is focus on your own growth and joy. When you thrive, it brings me happiness.
- Be Present: Life is full of little wonders. Recently, you shared a profound insight about missing nap time—how something you disliked could turn into a fond memory. Cherish these moments; being aware enhances your life’s richness.
- Pursue Your Interests: If you find yourself saying, “I’m bored,” it’s time to explore what excites you! Whether it’s hockey, coding, or playing the violin, find something that ignites your passion. There’s a world of adventure waiting for you!
- Avoid the Entitlement Trap: I might be a tough parent at times, but I will always call out any signs of entitlement. We are incredibly fortunate, and it’s crucial to stay grounded in that reality. Engaging in community service and maintaining gratitude—like our holiday volunteer work—can keep entitlement at bay.
- Stand Up for What’s Right: It’s vital to speak up, even if you aren’t the one starting the trouble. Remember Martin Luther King Jr.’s words about the silence of friends being more hurtful than enemies. Have the courage to challenge your peers when they stray from what’s right.
- Unconditional Love: I want you to know that I love you no matter what. Mistakes are just stepping stones to learning. I aim to show you how to embrace failures, apologize, and move forward. I will always support you through thick and thin.
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In summary, I hope these lessons resonate within you as you continue to grow. Remember to respect others, embrace your emotions, pursue your passions, and always be kind. Life is a journey, and I’m grateful to be part of yours.