Dear Emma,
People often say that college is the best time of your life. It’s a story we’ve been sharing with young adults for ages, and honestly, I’m not sure why—maybe it’s because grown-ups conveniently forget the sleepless nights of studying, the stress of exams, and the occasional existential crisis. But you know what? Life is so much bigger than just those college years, as you reminded me the other day.
At first, everything will feel fresh and exhilarating, but let’s be real: college isn’t all sunshine and rainbows. Your classes will challenge you, and there will be moments when you feel completely out of your depth. Spoiler alert: even the people who sound like they have it all figured out have those moments too—especially those who throw around fancy jargon you’ve never heard before.
You’ll find yourself studying late into the night, constantly questioning if you’re doing enough. Anxiety might creep in, or even full-blown panic. Please promise me—don’t let those feelings paralyze you. College is about so much more than just grades and GPA. You might worry that you aren’t cut out for this, but let me assure you—you absolutely are. Your determination is stronger than you realize, but you’ll need to manage those self-doubts along the way. And remember, if you find yourself feeling overwhelmed, don’t hesitate to reach out to your professors. They genuinely want to help you succeed.
There will be moments of loneliness and homesickness, and that’s perfectly normal. It doesn’t mean there’s anything wrong with you. You might feel a bit blue, but that’s just part of the transition. I know you might be anxious about falling into the same traps of anxiety and depression that some of your friends face. While it’s possible, you’ve shown resilience so far. College will bring its own challenges—maybe a breakup, a failed exam, or a spat with a roommate—but talking about it can really lighten the load. Call me, confide in a friend—don’t keep it bottled up!
Making genuine connections takes time. Sure, you might hit it off instantly with a few dorm mates, but remember that your best friendships back home took years to develop. It’s okay to feel a little unmoored in the beginning. Eventually, you’ll find your tribe, those friends who get you on a deeper level—like the ones you’ll remember fondly years down the line. It’s not about the immediate friendships; it’s about the bonds that will form later on.
You may question if you’re somehow “uncool” for preferring cozy nights in over wild parties. I know you, and let’s be honest—you’d probably end up cleaning up after someone’s regrettable decisions. You value your sleep, and I hope you stick to that because it contributes to your happiness. So, if you can find a roommate who shares your need for a good night’s rest, that’s a win! Just a tip: sleep deprivation can lead to feelings of sadness, so prioritize those Zs. And while I’m not naive—I know you’ll have fun with friends—just remember that partying isn’t the only way to enjoy college. It’s perfectly fine to binge-watch a series or go for those morning runs that keep you grounded.
Balancing a part-time job with classes can be tough. You’re fortunate to have some financial support, but I know money can still be a stressor. Remember, you’re not alone in worrying about college expenses. Finding friends who share those concerns can be comforting.
On a related note, don’t feel pressured to choose a major solely based on job prospects. The beauty of college is in exploring your passions and taking classes that inspire you. That’s where the real magic happens!
I know you might think I’m against taking risks, but I’m not! I genuinely want you to embrace adventure—whether that means engaging in late-night philosophical debates, hiking a mountain, or experiencing the thrill of a road trip. This is a unique time in your life when responsibilities are few, and possibilities are endless. When adults reminisce about their college days, it’s that exhilarating sense of potential they’re fondly recalling. So, even if these years come with challenges, they’re also filled with excitement. Dive in headfirst, sweetheart. This is your moment!
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In summary, college will bring its ups and downs, but it’s a time for growth, exploration, and building lasting connections. Embrace every moment!
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