This past weekend, something more elusive than a toddler-free night’s sleep happened: I, along with seven of my closest pals, escaped the chaos of home for a well-deserved moms’ retreat. Sure, the hotel was just 15 minutes from our houses, but it felt like we were worlds away.
Since becoming a mom 18 months ago, I’ve cultivated a solid circle of fellow moms who are my lifelines when my little one is driving me bananas. Through all the ups and downs—teething, tantrums, sleepless nights—these incredible women have been my guiding lights, offering advice and reassurance when I feel like I’m in over my head.
Being a stay-at-home mom can be a lonely gig, which is why having a supportive tribe is crucial. They don’t bat an eye at my nightly wine habit or my binge-watching of questionable reality TV. Whether I choose to let my child cry it out because I’m frazzled or permit her to survive on a diet of cheese and bananas for an entire week, they’re always there to validate my choices. We see each other almost weekly, but a weekend away from our kids is a rare treat.
After months of planning, we finally made it happen, and it was everything we hoped for. While you might anticipate a wild adventure reminiscent of a movie, the reality was just as entertaining in its own way. Each mom brings her own unique flair to the getaway. Let’s dive in:
- The Armageddon-Ready Mom
This mom packs as if she’s preparing for a month-long expedition. “Prepared” doesn’t do justice; she has everything from first-aid kits to snacks fit for a football team. Traveling with her means you’re covered for any scenario—just don’t expect to fit much in the car. - The Minimalist Mom
In stark contrast, this mom rolls in with just a change of clothes stuffed in her purse. She’s the one who probably forgot half her essentials and will be borrowing from the Armageddon-Ready Mom in no time. But that’s okay; she’s breezy and carefree about it. - The Perpetual Mom
This mom can’t switch off her maternal instincts. She’s the one who does an extra sweep of the hotel room and reminds everyone to use the restroom before leaving. She’s also the one who can’t help but check in with home every hour, missing her kids like crazy. - The Glam Mom
Looking like she strolled off a fashion runway, this mom shows up in her chic jeans while the rest of us are in casual wear. She’s the go-to for makeup tips and always looks effortlessly put together, inspiring a touch of jealousy in her friends. - The Organizer Mom
The glue of our group, this mom has meticulously arranged the weekend’s activities. From crafts to dinner reservations, she’s the mastermind behind our plans. Without her, we’d probably just end up sitting around wondering what to do next. - The Lightweights Mom
This mom is a riot after just one drink. Having spent the last year either pregnant or nursing, she’s finally ready to let loose and show her fun side. Watching her unwind is a highlight, as she brings infectious energy to the group. - The Super Busy Mom
This mom juggles so much more than just motherhood. With a job (or two) on top of her family responsibilities, she’s perpetually juggling. Her overnight bag is hastily packed, but that’s just her reality—she’s always racing against the clock. - The Sleep-Deprived Mom
Let’s be real—every mom is sleep-deprived, but this one takes advantage of every second away from home to catch up on rest. She’s the one who’ll hit the snooze button and show up to breakfast in pajamas, relishing the warmth of a meal she doesn’t have to share.
The beauty of a weekend away with mom friends lies in our shared understanding of the joy and challenges of raising little ones.
So, how did our getaway end? We dressed up in our best outfits, enjoyed a fancy dinner, and promptly returned to our hotel suite. After nursing our sore feet from heels we hadn’t worn in ages, we shared laughs, stories, and yes, even a bit of crafting and wine. It was a delightful reminder that while we often want to escape our children, they are the very reason we came together.
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Summary:
A moms’ getaway reveals the delightful diversity among mothers, from the overly prepared to the carefree minimalist. Each brings her unique style to the trip, making for a weekend filled with laughter, bonding, and a much-needed break from the daily grind of motherhood.