As a parent, it’s common to find oneself on the receiving end of unsolicited advice. However, many parents are acutely aware of their children’s behaviors and circumstances, making outside commentary often unnecessary. After five years of navigating the ups and downs of parenting, I have compiled a list of seven aspects of my parenting that I recognize, and I truly appreciate your understanding in not bringing them up.
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Socks? What Socks?
Yes, my child is currently sockless in chilly weather. I’ve attempted to put socks on him multiple times, but each time he insists on removing them. I’ve considered using duct tape for a quick fix, but the raised eyebrows I received from onlookers dissuaded me. -
My Attire is a Mess
Leaving the house means I’m likely sporting various remnants of my child’s adventures—stickers, Nutella smudges, and maybe even a stray Cheerio. Trust me, I’m aware of my unkempt look. However, if there’s any chance that the Nutella is actually something else, please do let me know. I draw the line at poop. -
I Have Enough Hands Full
Yes, I have three young children. I’m fully aware that my hands are quite full, thank you for noticing. -
Time Flies
I recognize how quickly these moments pass. While I know that one day my children will lead their own lives, in the heat of a tantrum—like when my daughter attempts to launch herself out of the car—I’m not exactly reflecting on how I will cherish this moment later. -
Snack Choices
I realize that graham crackers aren’t the healthiest option for my little one. However, unless I can figure out how to breastfeed while jogging, sometimes I need a quick snack solution to keep him occupied and my sanity intact. -
Playground Disagreements
I see that my daughter and yours are vying for the slide. I’m not ignoring the situation; I believe they can resolve their issues without our help. -
Fashion Choices
My daughter may not be dressed according to the latest toddler fashion trends, but I see no harm in her wearing leopard-print pajamas to the library. I pick my battles, and today’s was over her boots.
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