If you’ve recently welcomed a baby into your life, you are likely well acquainted with the overwhelming fatigue that accompanies motherhood. Initially, the joy of being a parent can overshadow the sleepless nights, but even the most optimistic new moms can reach a breaking point. Here are eight unmistakable signs that you might be an exhausted new mom:
- While discussing eye colors with your toddler, she innocently remarks, “Daddy has green eyes, I have brown eyes, the baby has blue eyes. You have red eyes.”
- You find yourself in tears upon realizing that your much-needed afternoon coffee may be keeping your breastfed baby wide awake at night.
- When a friend without children complains about being tired from a few late nights, you can’t help but wish, albeit secretly, that her future baby has colic.
- At the grocery store, you encounter another mom with a baby the same age as yours, looking refreshed and put together while you’re clad in yoga pants and a t-shirt that you deemed acceptable after a smell test. Your baby, still in the same pajamas for two days, makes it hard to hide your envy when she shares that her baby sleeps through the night.
- Early in the morning, you overhear your partner inviting friends over for brunch, claiming, “Oh no, our night wasn’t that bad.” As you struggle to open one eye, you ponder if he’s been sleeping in an alternate universe.
- Your intimate moments with your partner have devolved into a competition of who can pretend to be asleep the longest when the baby cries. If you manage to outlast him, you score some extra rest; if not, you dramatically toss the covers off and shoot him a glare.
- Your baby, who refuses to be laid down, becomes your constant companion. When you finally achieve a moment of peace and he falls asleep in his crib, all you can think about is a long bubble bath and a good book—until you notice your partner’s expectant look, which you choose to ignore.
- On a particularly challenging night, after doing everything possible to soothe your crying newborn, your partner suggests, “Just put him on your breast!” In frustration, you retort, “You put him on yours!” momentarily contemplating his willingness to humor you.
For more insights on parenting and the challenges that come with it, you can explore our related post on infertility resources. Remember, if you’re considering home insemination, check out this authority on the topic for helpful information. And for additional tips, visit this page.
In summary, the journey of motherhood is filled with both joy and fatigue. Recognizing the signs of exhaustion can help you seek support and find ways to recharge.