Dear Michael,
As you approach your 21st birthday, I find myself reflecting on the profound changes that this milestone brings. What aspects of our parenting will continue to resonate in your life, and which will fade away like the memories of that Little Tikes car you once raced around the neighborhood? Now that you’re legally able to purchase a drink or enjoy a night out, I wonder how our relationship evolves. Will my advice still carry weight, or will your newfound maturity lead you to seek guidance less often?
Reaching this age signifies more than just a legal threshold—it marks the transition from childhood to adulthood. While turning 18 felt significant, it’s 21 that truly ushers in a new chapter in your life as a young man. I remember you as that sweet boy, captivated by Barney the Dinosaur and clutching your favorite blanket, and I see the beginnings of a responsible adult in you now.
There’s much ahead, and I know you are eager for it all to unfold. But I urge you to embrace each moment. Don’t rush through your twenties, wishing for the next milestone. Instead, think of this stage as the start of an exciting season in your life. Just like a football game, there will be plays to strategize and lessons to learn, and it won’t all happen at once. I see your impatience—an echo of my own at your age—but I encourage you to take a breath and enjoy the present.
As you navigate this journey, I consciously step back, allowing you the space to find your own path. Your choices are increasingly reflective of your own beliefs, shaped by our family, friends, and your own experiences. I take pride in seeing you trust your instincts and make decisions that align with your values. You recently shared with your father that you don’t feel the need to share every detail of your life with us anymore, and in that moment, I felt a sense of fulfillment. We have done our part.
While I sometimes miss the little boy who looked at me with wonder, I also cherish the man you are becoming. I’m excited to witness the opportunities that lie ahead for you, but I will remain patient and savor these moments, just as you should.
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In summary, embrace the journey ahead with patience and curiosity. Your path is uniquely yours to explore, and I will always be here, cheering you on.