Dear Emily,
I hope this message reaches you well after your initial night in the dormitory. Your text reassured me that you have made it through your first day on your own.
I must confess, leaving you there stirred some apprehension within me. Returning home and finding your takeout container from last night still on the table only added to my worries. Anyone who has shared a living space with you knows that you tend to leave traces behind. I will don my gloves and a hazmat suit to tackle your room in a few days.
My foremost piece of advice: take responsibility for your space, and always remember to flush. Your siblings insisted I add that last part.
Eighteen years seemed like an eternity until the moment I held you for the first time. Time has a way of speeding up when you try to grasp it tightly. I thought I had ample time to teach you everything essential for life, but it seems like the lines between teacher and student have blurred. I’ve learned the difficult art of letting go. It’s challenging, but like a mother bird, I must encourage you to leave the nest. I have no doubt you will not just fly; you will soar.
You transformed me into a mother—not the same mother I am today, as I have certainly evolved. Regrettably, being the firstborn meant you were my experimental subject. I learned through many missteps along the way. Now, with six siblings later, I believe I have perfected my approach, and I genuinely hope I haven’t caused you too much distress in the process.
I have always been confident in your ability to thrive independently. You possess a unique stubbornness and a vibrant personality. Even at three years old, you harmonized the clean-up song while meticulously rearranging toys at preschool. Your teachers were onto your methods, yet they admired your ability to “take it easy.” Your classmates didn’t grasp the situation, while I felt both mortified and proud. That is, until you began employing the same tactics at home.
As you embark on this new journey, be sure to contribute your fair share—at home, in class, and at work. Sometimes, you will need to exceed expectations. Embrace the challenges, get your hands dirty, and approach everything with a positive attitude. Your efforts will surely be recognized.
You have always been the standout among your peers. Loud and confident, you weren’t shy about sharing your opinions and even correcting authority figures. I remember your kindergarten teacher telling me, “This one is destined for greatness.” I was left wondering if I should feel flattered or anxious.
Your boldness has always been evident. However, remember that your professors may not appreciate your overzealousness. And be mindful of your roommate—her influence can significantly impact your college experience.
Your natural confidence attracts others, but ensure you remain humble. You have talents, but remember that everyone has their unique gifts to offer. Take time to recognize those who shine inwardly.
Beware of the “Freshman 15.” It could sneak up on you if you’re not careful. Maintain an active lifestyle and remember that there is a world beyond social media. Your father and I have witnessed your reluctance toward sports; we remember standing at the sidelines as you focused on your shoelaces instead of the game. The lesson was clear—you will only do what you choose to do. Now, there’s a vast campus waiting for you to explore.
Peer pressure has never been your concern. I recall when the DARE program turned every adult into a potential alcoholic in your eyes. Your fierce glare at your father during Christmas dinner reassured me that alcohol would remain off your radar for some time. While I hope you retain that caution, remember to also enjoy this experience. College is brief (hopefully just four years), so allow yourself to have fun.
You’ve always embraced your individuality, whether it was wearing paper clips for a cause or expressing your thoughts freely. Never let anyone extinguish that spark within you.
Make academics a priority. Submit your assignments on time, maintain open communication with your professors, and strive for excellence. Remember, respect is paramount, even when disagreements arise.
Smile and learn to laugh at yourself. Cherish every moment of your next four years. You have immense potential, and I am confident you will achieve remarkable things.
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In summary, embrace your independence, maintain your unique spirit, and strive for balance in your studies and social life. You are capable of achieving wonderful things.