Tag: societal expectations
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Stop Expecting Women to Smile: A Call for Respect
Get Pregnant Fast If you’ve ever strolled down a bustling street without a broad grin plastered on your face, chances are you’ve encountered unsolicited remarks urging you to smile. “You’d look so much prettier if you smiled!” or “Hey, sweetheart, just give us a smile!” These comments often come from men who seem to believe…
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Why I Refuse to Tell My Sons to “Suck It Up”
Get Pregnant Fast As a parent, I’ve found myself uttering things I never thought I would. Phrases like, “Stop using your brother as a trampoline,” or “Please don’t put your toys in the toilet!” frequently escape my lips. Yet, there’s one phrase you will never hear from me: “Suck it up.” Today’s society has made…
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If You’re Unsure About Having Kids, Think Twice
Get Pregnant Fast When it comes to parenting, I might not be an expert, but I often find myself in the hot seat, fielding questions about motherhood from friends who are contemplating having children. The most common inquiry? Is it truly worth it? Perhaps my friends see me as a source of wisdom because I…
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10 Comments You’ll Hear When Approaching 30 and Not a Parent Yet
Get Pregnant Fast As I near my 30th birthday (it’s looming), I’ve noticed an uptick in baby-related questions—from my mom, family, friends, and even the occasional stranger. While my husband and I do plan to have children in the future, we’re currently in a phase of life that doesn’t align with starting a family just…
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Men Prefer Strong, Independent Daughters and Affectionate Wives
Get Pregnant Fast A recent study titled “The Shriver Report Snapshot: An Insight Into The 21st Century Man” surveyed 818 heterosexual men across America, asking them to identify key traits they desire in both their daughters and wives. The results raise some eyebrows. First off, it’s encouraging that intelligence ranked highest for both daughters and…
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Living in a Body That Doesn’t Reflect My True Self
Get Pregnant Fast A year ago, I managed to shed around 30 pounds for what felt like the umpteenth time. During that period, my father visited and casually dropped a comment that left me feeling shocked, hurt, and frankly, quite irritated. Let me clarify: my dad is a decent guy whom I love dearly. He…
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Response to Emma Cartwright’s Experience: The Backlash Against Successful Moms
Get Pregnant Fast Emma Cartwright welcomed her identical twin daughters yesterday, expanding her family to three children with her partner, David Jacobs. Alongside their new arrivals, the twins join their older brother, Oliver, who is three. However, Emma’s announcement was met with disdain online, as critics labeled her an irresponsible mother for planning to return…
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Moms Are Individuals First: Embracing Parenthood’s Realities
Get Pregnant Fast I’m a mom, a partner, and sometimes a little bit of a hot mess. I’m a decent person, but I’m certainly not a maid, a gourmet chef, or anyone’s hired help. These days, discussions around parenting often leave us feeling like we’re not measuring up. The societal expectations are overwhelming. I often…
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Maybe It’s Time to Give Millennials a Break
Get Pregnant Fast Updated: July 26, 2016 Originally Published: May 24, 2005 During my first pregnancy, I often found myself declaring, “I WILL NEVER…” followed by a laundry list of things I swore I would avoid as a parent. From vowing never to let my kids watch annoying shows to avoiding baby talk, I had…
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The Emotional Struggles of a Single Mother
Get Pregnant Fast Being a single mother is undoubtedly challenging, a reality that’s familiar to many. The obvious exhaustion and the lack of a partner to help with everyday tasks are just the beginning. While I anticipated the sleepless nights and the struggle for financial stability, the emotional hurdles have been the most difficult battles…