Dear Allergy Parents,
Let me begin by acknowledging something important: I can only imagine your reality. In fact, I can only hypothetically grasp it. The truth is, I’ve never experienced the challenges of being a parent to a child with allergies.
I can’t truly comprehend the constant anxiety you face daily, worrying about what might happen when your child is at school, fearing that a simple jelly sandwich could pose a grave threat because it was prepared with a knife that once touched peanut butter. I don’t know what it feels like to rush your child to the emergency room, helplessly watching as they struggle to breathe or seeing the alarming welts appear on their skin.
I’ve never endured lengthy, exhausting discussions with restaurant staff to confirm whether that hamburger bun contains eggs or if those mixed vegetables include peas. I can’t fathom the frustration of completing countless school forms, your hand cramping from writing, all while worrying they might get lost or misplaced.
I don’t know what it’s like to choose a purse based on whether it can accommodate an EpiPen, nor do I understand the sheer panic that must wash over you when you briefly think it’s gone—only to find it buried beneath a pack of tissues at the bottom of your bag.
So, no, I can’t claim to know what it’s like to be an allergy parent. But I do know what it feels like to love a child deeply. I understand that fierce protective instinct that makes you want to keep your child within your sight indefinitely, while also recognizing that the essence of parenting is to prepare them for independence.
I know the desire for your child to thrive, to be healthy, happy, and courageous. I know what it means to give your all to your child, to love them fiercely.
While I may not fully grasp the life of an allergy parent, I promise to do my utmost to understand your experiences. I will offer empathy, support, and kindness. I will ask about your child’s dietary needs rather than focus on what they can’t have. I will make the effort to visit multiple grocery stores to find that specific brand of cookies that are safe for your child to enjoy. I will listen attentively as you share your child’s restrictions when they come to play at our home. I will remember to inquire if your child has any allergies.
I will honor my child’s wishes to avoid peanut butter and trail mix in his lunch, understanding that we want to create an inclusive environment for your child. I will remind myself that you are doing everything you can to protect your child, just as we all are.
Even though I may not know the trials of being an allergy parent, I can relate to the love that drives you.
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In summary, while I may not share your journey, I stand with you in understanding your challenges and supporting your efforts to keep your child safe and happy.
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