As I sit here sipping my morning coffee, I keep one eye on the weather forecast. A looming storm threatens to disrupt my five-year-old’s final little league game of the season, and I find myself torn. While I recognize the benefits of team sports, part of me wouldn’t mind a rainy day at home.
Even if the game is washed out, he’ll have another chance next year. I’m still in control of that decision. Fortunately, he’s starting to enjoy baseball more — though at five, his attention span is still a work in progress. He occasionally sits in the infield or begs for snacks from the dugout, but there’s been noticeable improvement in his skills. He can hit, throw, and even stop a few balls from getting past him! But let’s be honest, at this age, it’s not really about competition.
As he grows older, competition will become a factor. However, I understand that he might not want to continue. A recent survey indicates that around 70% of children stop participating in organized sports by age 13, and I’m okay with that, depending on the reasoning behind it.
At this young age, participation is crucial. Youth sports instill values like teamwork, discipline, and physical fitness. They provide essential exposure to activities that could spark a lifelong passion. My son will continue playing little league and community sports for the foreseeable future.
But once he hits his teenage years? I’ll be perfectly fine if he chooses to step back — as long as he has valid reasons. If he loses interest due to overly competitive parents or a results-driven culture that sucks the joy out of the game, that’s something we need to address. The Changing The Game Project highlights that many kids quit sports because they feel a lack of enjoyment, fear of making mistakes, or experience sitting on the bench too much. These issues often stem from adult pressures, and if it’s not fun, it’s hard to keep kids engaged.
When my son reaches 13, I’ll support his decision to explore other interests — as long as he stays active in some form. Whether he finds other passions or simply feels he doesn’t have the competitive edge, that’s perfectly acceptable. There are numerous ways for him to learn about discipline, teamwork, and resilience outside of organized sports.
Competitive sports aren’t for everyone. I stepped away from them in high school when I realized I didn’t measure up physically, and it was disheartening to sit on the bench every game. I still enjoy casual pick-up games and intramural activities, which focus more on fun than winning. Unless your child is on the path to professional sports, the essence of participation should be enjoyment. If organized sports cease to be fun for my teenager, I’m all for him finding joy elsewhere.
And now, if you’ll excuse me, I have to encourage my son to get dressed in his baseball uniform. The rain hasn’t arrived yet, and he’s not yet 13, so it’s game time!
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Summary:
While organized sports are valuable for young children, it’s important to prioritize enjoyment. As kids grow older, their interests may shift, and as parents, we should support their decisions to step back if sports become a source of stress rather than fun. Encouraging a balance between participation and passion is key to their overall development.
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