Hello, soon-to-be mamas! Are you eagerly counting down the days until you get to meet your little one? It’s an exciting time, and rightfully so! Welcoming a new life into the world is nothing short of miraculous, and you’ll treasure this experience forever. However, let’s be honest: while motherhood is a profound joy, it also brings changes that you might not fully grasp until you’re in the thick of it.
The early days of being a mom can be a mix of wonder and chaos. I absolutely adore my child, but sometimes I look back longingly at “life before baby.” So, before you morph into a sleep-deprived version of yourself—where a thrilling evening means a midnight run to the pharmacy in your PJs—consider tackling these seven things while you still can:
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Catch a Movie in Theaters
Take advantage of the chance to enjoy a film on the big screen. Go for a late show, relish your ability to stay out past 10 p.m., and indulge in popcorn and candy. You might not have this luxury again for a while, maybe until the next big animated release. -
Savor That Extra Hour of Daylight Saving Time
Ah, remember that blissful feeling in November when you get to “fall back” and sleep in? Enjoy it now, because soon you’ll dread daylight saving time as it will just mean your baby wakes up at 4 a.m. and refuses to adjust to the new schedule. You thought you were tired before? Just wait! -
Enjoy Bathroom Privacy
You might be shocked at how quickly privacy disappears after having a child. Just the other day, I was in the bathroom when my 4-year-old barged in for a hug—while I was mid-wipe! Trust me, moments alone will become a rarity. -
Sleep In on Weekends
Here’s a truth bomb: babies don’t understand weekends. They’ll wake you up at the crack of dawn every single day, and your leisurely mornings will be a thing of the past. Say goodbye to those blissful, lazy Saturdays spent lounging in bed with a book. -
Run Errands Solo
What was once a carefree outing can turn into a logistical nightmare once you have a baby. A simple trip to the store will require packing a diaper bag like you’re preparing for an expedition. Plus, you’ll have to navigate the aisles with a stroller while praying for no diaper blowouts! -
Have Spontaneous Intimacy
If you’re used to spontaneous moments, prepare for a reality check. With a baby, mornings and afternoons will be filled with chores and exhaustion. By the time night rolls around and you’re finally healed, you may wonder where your sex life went. -
Practice Selfishness
Before you have a baby, it’s much easier to focus on yourself—your career, hobbies, and personal time. Once your little one arrives, it’s all about their needs. It’s a significant shift, and while it may be tough, you’ll adapt over time.
While I don’t intend to scare you, it’s vital to prepare for the realities of motherhood. A wise friend once told me, “You never knew you could love someone so much.” It’s true! Sure, the days can be long and challenging, and you might miss your old life at times. However, the love you’ll feel for your child will overshadow any of those tough moments. Their laughter, smiles, and sleepy faces can make you consider having another baby—despite all the chaos.
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In summary, embrace these moments before your baby arrives. The transition to motherhood is both beautiful and challenging, but it will undoubtedly open your heart in ways you never imagined.
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