Feeding children can often feel like a daunting task. Take it from me—my oldest is a notoriously picky eater, while my youngest has an insatiable sweet tooth and can barely sit still long enough to finish a meal. As a result, mealtimes can sometimes resemble a chaotic circus act! However, I’ve come to realize that this experience is quite common among parents.
The hours after school can be particularly hectic, especially when it comes to feeding the kids. From what I’ve gathered through conversations with other parents, it seems that many children don’t eat much during lunchtime at school. So when they come home, they’re not just hungry; they’re HANGRY. You know the kind of hunger that leads to dramatic meltdowns and tears? I remember those days all too well!
For years, I tried to manage the after-school snacking chaos by offering quick bites—mini pizza bagels, hummus with pita chips, granola bars—whatever was fast and relatively nutritious. But the snacking never seemed to end. They would graze from 3 to 4 p.m., leaving little room for an actual dinner. One feeding session seamlessly morphed into another, creating a confusing and frustrating situation for everyone involved.
Then, one fateful afternoon, I had a lightbulb moment: Why not serve dinner at 3 or 4 p.m. when they’re clearly the hungriest? Why not provide a proper meal (or as proper as I can get with my picky eaters) and save the snacks for later?
I implemented this strategy a few months ago, and let me tell you—it’s been a game changer! Sure, it can be a challenge to whip up a meal at that hour, but I’ve found it’s completely manageable. My go-to meals are simple: pasta, chicken nuggets, grilled cheese, and a side of fruit or veggies. Surprisingly, they actually enjoy it! These meals are far more nutritious and filling than the snacks I used to serve, which often spoiled their appetite for dinner.
Typically, they eat their early meal before diving into homework, ensuring they’re well-fed and in good spirits while tackling their assignments. You might wonder if they get hungry before bed. The answer is yes, but I now offer them healthy snacks if they need them. This has significantly reduced the mindless snacking they used to do before and after dinner—a win in my book!
As for me? I often join them for an early dinner. Like many parents, I rise early and tend to have breakfast, lunch, and yes, even dinner at earlier times. I usually settle down for a healthy meal around 4:30 or 5 p.m., and then I enjoy a light snack after the kids head to bed.
So yes, my kids eat dinner at 3 or 4 p.m. It may sound a bit odd to some, but when I mentioned this to a few friends, they shared that they either do the same or are thinking about trying it. It makes sense when you consider that kids typically go to bed around 8 p.m. Why should they wait until 6 or 7 p.m. to eat? Early dinners align better with their natural hunger rhythms and help alleviate that dreaded 4 p.m. witching hour.
Feeding my kids an early dinner has been a revelation, and I can’t believe it took me so long to figure it out. For anyone who thinks this is unconventional or that children should eat at a more “acceptable” time, I pose this question: Does it really matter what time it is? Kids’ bodies don’t care about societal norms regarding mealtimes. My motto is simple: Feed your kids well when they’re hungry. Do what works best for your family—the rest is just noise.
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In summary, embracing an early dinner for my kids has transformed our mealtime experience. It aligns with their natural hunger and leads to happier, healthier evenings. Give it a try—you might just find it works wonders for your family too!
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