Blogger Jenna Michaels is on a mission to help mothers understand the realities of breastfeeding. As a first-time mother, it’s easy to assume that breastfeeding will come naturally and effortlessly—like a well-rehearsed dance. Unfortunately, this is often far from the truth. That’s why Jenna wants women everywhere to realize that “breastfeeding isn’t always beautiful and it definitely isn’t simple.”
In a candid Facebook post that has garnered over 60,000 likes, the 30-year-old mother of three shared a photo of herself “napping while nursing twins” and opened up about the challenges of feeding newborns. She expressed, “When I was expecting my first child, I was thrilled about that special bond—those moments of suckling, gently stroking their hair, and feeling radiant with joy. What I didn’t anticipate was the harsh reality of crying from the pain of cracked, bleeding nipples being innocently tortured by a hungry baby. It was far from glamorous, with my hair in a messy bun and a faint scent of sour milk lingering around me.”
Jenna, who previously achieved viral fame for her humorous take on parenting, also noted that while we often think of breastfeeding as instinctual, “not all babies come out knowing how to latch; some need guidance, and teaching them can be incredibly frustrating.” This sentiment resonates deeply with anyone who has faced feeding challenges, particularly with premature infants. And when it comes to pumping, Jenna has her own unique perspective: “Pumping can be a nightmare. With three of my babies being over five weeks premature, I found myself expressing milk constantly. I’ve made it a rule: if I have to pump, I’m switching to formula. Trust me, nothing is worth that hassle.”
Jenna’s twins eventually self-weaned at six months—“mainly because I was supplementing with formula anyway”—but she assures that her connection with them remained strong. In fact, she believes that by prioritizing her own well-being, her bond with her children grew even deeper.
The mantra “breast is best” is often repeated without consideration for what’s best for mothers. Some women thrive on breastfeeding and continue for years, while others face various obstacles, such as latching difficulties, low milk supply, postpartum depression, or other challenges that complicate the experience. The key takeaway is that whatever method you choose to feed your baby is valid, and your health and sanity must come first. As Jenna eloquently puts it, “No one should feel like they are failing at breastfeeding. If your baby is fed, you’ve succeeded.”
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In summary, Jenna hopes to remind all moms that whatever path you take in feeding your baby, it’s about doing what is right for you and your family. No one should feel that they’ve failed in this journey.
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