11 Insights Gained from 3 Months on Facebook

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It’s been three months since I dove headfirst into the chaotic world of social media, and I must admit, my understanding of it has evolved into something surprisingly enjoyable and fulfilling. Just kidding! It’s still a whirlwind of absurdity and anxiety that makes me question humanity’s future. However, there have been some valuable lessons learned along the way:

  1. I was completely unaware of how much I missed a few people from my past until I stumbled upon their profiles again.
  2. Conversely, I realized just how much certain individuals can annoy me. (Not you, of course. You’re great!)
  3. One of the most delightful features across platforms is the ability to be friends without following them. Just because we’re connected doesn’t mean I want to see every single thing you post. If only real life had a mute button for annoying people—I’d pay good money for that!
  4. Facebook has a knack for disrupting the natural flow of life. Sometimes, people exit your life for a reason, and social media ensures that those remnants linger, posting about their lives as if nothing ever changed. It’s like survival of the least fit.
  5. The constant reminders on Facebook have made me nostalgic for my younger self, often in an overly romanticized way. I recently came across a picture that took me back to my 19th birthday—driving down a dark country road, feeling invincible in my tight dress, and sharing laughter with a dear friend. It’s a bittersweet reminder that nostalgia can twist memories, cropping out the struggles and fears that were also part of my youth.
  6. I have a tendency to seek measurable validation, which makes social media a dangerous playground for me. It leads me to believe that I can quantify my worth through likes and comments, creating a complicated formula that ultimately doesn’t reflect my true value.
  7. However, this math misses the real depth of connection: the heartfelt messages that express gratitude, the fear that I silence before hitting “publish,” and the self-discovery that happens while writing and sharing my thoughts.
  8. While the internet has gradually shortened my attention span, platforms like Facebook and Twitter have exacerbated the issue. It’s too easy to scroll endlessly, convinced that I need to absorb every article, lest I miss something crucial.
  9. I’ve decided I will never change my profile picture to show support for a tragic event. It’s too easy to feel like I’ve done my part without actually contributing anything meaningful. Sometimes, feeling the weight of a tragedy is more important than making a gesture that can feel hollow.
  10. Social media has exposed me to some remarkably beautiful writing that I would have otherwise missed.
  11. Lastly, I’ve learned that beginnings can be daunting, but they won’t be the end of me.

In conclusion, while my journey on Facebook has been tumultuous, it’s also been a source of unexpected insights and connections. If you’re looking for more information about home insemination, check out this post from our blog. Additionally, you can find reputable at-home insemination kits at Make a Mom. For further resources on pregnancy and home insemination, visit CCRM IVF’s blog.

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