8 Essential Lessons I Want My Daughter to Learn About Being Tall

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Dear daughter, it’s clear that height runs in the family. I hit 5 feet 9 inches by the time I was in fourth grade, and your father stands at a towering 6 feet 3 inches. That means you’re destined to be quite tall—maybe not runway model tall, but definitely “always in the back row of class photos” tall. This height may not feel like the blessing it’s sometimes made out to be; like us, you might face your fair share of teasing, but remember, the promise of “you’ll appreciate it one day” will help you cope. As you grow, here are some truths to keep in mind:

1. Expect Some Minor Letdowns
   You’ll find that your growth spurts come with a few disappointments. Remember when you outgrew that tricycle after just one ride? And those amusement park kiddie rides? Out of the question. Your gymnastics dreams may end sooner than expected, and I’m afraid those adorable light-up sneakers you want don’t come in your size. I’m sorry about all that.
2. Your Height is Unmissable
   Hiding your height isn’t an option. Even if you try to slouch or curl up when you sit, you’ll just become known as the “tall girl with bad posture.” Unlike shorter girls who can wear heels, there’s no way to disguise your height. It’s tough, but don’t let it define you.
3. People May Assume You Have Certain Talents
   You might be surprised by how often your height leads others to think you’re athletic or graceful. I remember being picked first for teams, despite my complete lack of coordination! If people see your long limbs and assume you’re a natural athlete, just roll with it. They’ll figure it out soon enough.
4. People Will Mistake Your Age
   I vividly recall playing one of the orphans in a school production of Annie, and looking much older than my character. As you run around with your stuffed animals and throw the occasional temper tantrum, you might get asked if you’re in kindergarten when you’re just two years old. It’s a common misunderstanding, but remember, looking older doesn’t mean you have to act older.
5. Friendships Go Beyond Size
   While you may not be able to share a “sisterhood of traveling pants” with your friends, height won’t matter when you’re having fun together. I had a best friend in high school who was under 5 feet tall, and I didn’t realize it for years! We laughed about it and moved on—size doesn’t define friendship.
6. Height Can Influence Relationships
   As much as I’d like to say otherwise, my husband often jokes that I wouldn’t have dated him if he were shorter. There’s some truth to that. Your height might intimidate some guys, and you might find yourself crushing on the smallest guy in your class. It’s a balancing act between finding someone who makes you feel secure and accepting that height preferences exist.
7. You’ll Be Seen as Responsible
   Your height will likely lead people to assume you’re older and more capable than you are. I’ve experienced this firsthand when I was mistaken for a camp counselor at just 9 years old and handed a stack of forms to distribute! People may expect you to take on responsibilities you didn’t ask for, so embrace it and use it to your advantage.
8. You’ll Always Be My Daughter
   Together, we’ll stand tall like two skyscrapers in a bustling city, with nowhere to go but up.

If you’re interested in more insights about navigating life as a tall girl, check out this other blog post here. And for those considering family planning, you might find this excellent resource about home insemination helpful. Remember, when it comes to home insemination kits, Cryobaby offers some great options.

In summary, being tall presents its unique challenges and perks. Embrace your height, navigate the world with confidence, and remember that true friendships and relationships go beyond mere measurements.