Menu: Parenting
By: Jake Thompson
Updated: Jan. 17, 2023
Originally Published: Jan. 16, 2023
Not long ago, I stirred up some chatter on social media. I shared a humorous observation about how my partner fusses over our daughter when she’s feeling unwell, contrasting it with her reaction to me when I’m sick. While our little one receives endless cuddles and nurturing, I often get met with an eye roll and comments about how I need to “man up.”
Some readers took offense, but I’m sticking to my guns: Women seem to enjoy caring for their sick children but often lack the same enthusiasm for their sick partners. And honestly, they might not even realize they’re perpetuating this dynamic.
I truly admire how my partner dotes on our daughter. Witnessing her love reminds me of the warmth my own mother provided. It’s comforting to see, even as we navigate the challenges of parenthood together. Sure, our daughter can throw a tantrum that could rival a natural disaster, but the moment she coughs, it’s like a switch flips—suddenly it’s all about the snuggles and soup. I have no issue with that; my mother did the same for me, and honestly, it’s one of the perks of having a nurturing partner.
However, this has also set a precedent. Growing up with such attentive care made me expect similar treatment as an adult. Let’s be real: if we want to avoid the “babying” as men, maybe we shouldn’t be treated like babies in the first place. Just because women have a stronger instinct to nurture (or so the science suggests) doesn’t mean it’s our fault we enjoy being taken care of.
You can’t set the bar high as a mom and then expect us to adjust overnight when we transition to adulthood. And while I can’t fully explain the difference in how men and women handle sickness (there’s a theory about “Man Flu,” but I digress), it’s clear that the maternal love for sons often stands out.
Sure, as men we could probably toughen up and not rely on the comfort of being pampered when we’re ill, but sometimes a guy just wants to be tucked in with a bowl of soup—perhaps even daydreaming about being a helpless little one again.
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In summary, while it’s natural to want to care for loved ones, it’s essential for both partners to recognize and balance their roles. After all, a little mutual understanding can go a long way in maintaining harmony in both parenting and relationships.
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