Reflecting on the past, it’s hard to believe that two decades have passed since I stood among my classmates on graduation day. Picture this: a sunny football field, my cap perched on a big hairdo, and a blend of excitement and uncertainty in the air. As we celebrated our achievements and bid farewell to our teenage years, we promised to remain steadfast friends and never change. Our futures looked bright, and yes, our hair was enormous.
As I think back to that time, I often wonder what advice my current self would share with my younger self, who I’ll fondly refer to as HJTJ (Hair-Jacked-to-Jesus). Life has unfolded in unexpected ways, and while I’ve enjoyed many wonderful moments, there are definitely pieces of wisdom that could have made my journey smoother. Here are five essential lessons I wish I could have imparted to my high school self:
1. Travel While You’re Young and Adventurous
One of my biggest regrets is not seizing the opportunity to travel abroad right after high school. With college looming and finances tight, I often chose summer jobs over adventures. I spent too many summers at a desk instead of exploring Europe and making memories in youth hostels. If I had known how affordable travel could be when you’re not picky about accommodations, I would have packed my bags and hit the road. Embrace those youthful standards—sleeping in hostels and flying coach are experiences that become priceless.
2. Social Circles Expand, Especially on Social Media
High school social dynamics can be challenging. I wasn’t the most popular kid, but I had a close-knit group of friends. Despite feeling like an outsider at times, I’ve come to realize that the social hierarchy fades as we grow older. Fast forward ten years, and you’ll find yourself reconnecting with those “cool kids” on Facebook, supporting their milestones. By the time two decades pass, you’ll be inviting anyone from your class over for wine—because standards really do shift!
3. First Love Prepares You for Lasting Relationships
Everyone remembers their first love—those sweet, intense feelings of young romance. For many, that first significant other teaches valuable lessons about love and heartbreak. In my case, my high school sweetheart helped me understand what I truly needed in a partner. After we parted ways, I found a love that was deeper and more fulfilling. So while first loves are special, they often pave the way for discovering lasting connections.
4. Fashion Is a Journey of Evolution
As someone who graduated in the era of big hair and questionable fashion choices, I can’t help but cringe when I look back at my old photos. From parachute pants to bedazzled spandex, our style was a mix of hits and misses. I wish I could tell my younger self that fashion is ever-changing. Those trends are best left in the past, and your wardrobe will evolve for the better. Trust me, your adult self will appreciate a more refined sense of style.
5. High School Isn’t the Peak of Life
Contrary to what TV shows like Beverly Hills, 90210 might suggest, high school is not the pinnacle of fun. While it can be a memorable time, the excitement of college, career opportunities, and personal growth far surpasses those teenage years. After high school, life opens up in ways you can’t even imagine—chasing dreams and embracing new adventures. So, cherish those memories, but remember they’re just the beginning of a much richer story.
As I approach my 20-year reunion, I’m reminded that the past is a small part of my life’s larger narrative. While I fondly recall my high school days, I’ve realized that life continues to unfold in beautiful ways. If you’re interested in exploring more about pregnancy and related topics, check out this excellent resource on pregnancy and home insemination from the NICHD.
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In summary, high school is just one chapter in the book of life. Embrace the lessons learned, cherish the friendships, and look forward to the adventures ahead.
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