Why I Decided to Block My Mother-in-Law on Social Media

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Let’s get one thing straight: I have my reasons for blocking my mother-in-law from my social media accounts. First off, I want to keep this article under her radar, along with everything else I share online. I do this with love (not spite), and honestly, it’s a protective measure—for both of us, and for the future of family gatherings. Think of it as a hidden kindness in the digital age.

When you add your MIL on platforms like Facebook, she will undoubtedly scrutinize every post, especially those featuring her beloved grandchildren. She adores those little ones, and understandably so. However, not every post will sit well with her, and vice versa. The potential for snarky exchanges is high, and soon enough, you might find yourself caught in a whirlwind of passive-aggressive comments that could escalate into a full-blown discussion with your husband. He’ll be furious that you dared to express your feelings about his mother. Trust me, it’s a recipe for chaos.

So, I’ve taken the plunge and blocked my MIL not just on Facebook, but also on Instagram. As for Twitter, well, it’s public, so I’m a bit vulnerable there, but at least I’m limited to 280 characters of potential drama.

I’m not the easiest person to be friends with online. In my social media world, you have to be prepared for OPP: Outspoken Profane Posts. I’m unapologetically vocal about my opinions and won’t hesitate to call out bigotry or intolerance. My posts often include my colorful hair and tattoos, which can provoke some family chatter. I also share moments of joy with my wine glass, captioned “CHEERS!”—only to receive comments like, “Who’s watching the kids?” Um, their dad is, thank you very much!

Here are five reasons I’ve opted to block my MIL on social media, and why you might want to consider doing the same:

1. Unintentional Hurt: Sharing a moment with my kids without her could leave her feeling excluded. She might wonder why she wasn’t invited, and explaining it would not be easy. The truth is, sometimes we just need our space.
2. Different Sense of Humor: Our age gap means we often don’t share the same sense of humor. For instance, if I post a funny selfie with my kids and a cheeky caption, it might horrify her. Her response? A loving comment that would make me cringe. I can only imagine the series of concerned phone calls to my husband suggesting I need some time off.
3. Clashing Beliefs: Our differing beliefs—shaped by our backgrounds and experiences—could lead to unnecessary conflict. If I express my support for LGBTQ+ rights, for example, I might be met with disapproval that would only create friction. Keeping those conversations offline is best for both of us.
4. Public Embarrassment: My relationship with my MIL can be rocky, and I’d rather keep our issues private. Besides, she seems to overlook my accomplishments, assuming her son is the sole breadwinner. I don’t need the world to witness our dynamic.
5. Endless Drama: Social media has a way of keeping old drama alive. Posts linger in the digital realm, making it easy to revisit painful moments. I’d rather not have my past disagreements with my MIL pop up every time I log on.

Now, if you happen to have a wonderful relationship with your mother-in-law and think I’m overreacting, I’m genuinely happy for you—but I bet someone in your family could use a good blocking.

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In summary, blocking my MIL on social media has been a necessary step to maintain peace and harmony in my online life. If you find yourself in a similar predicament, consider taking the plunge—you may find it liberating.