It was just another evening in our lively household. After wrapping up work, I gathered my three energetic boys, and we made our way home. Once inside, I was bombarded with their spirited demands, reminiscent of a barista handling a busy morning rush at a café. We engaged in some playtime, I attempted to provide a “dinner” (which, let’s be real, consisted of frozen cheese-stuffed pretzel bites—Martha Stewart would be so proud), and then we played a little more.
I managed to stave off the typical 8 o’clock bedtime frenzy, a chaotic scene that hits every night when the kids sense that sleep is on the horizon. You know the drill: they strip down to their underwear, run wild, and unleash their inner hyenas while giggling and slapping each other’s behinds. Or is that just my crew?
Eventually, I wrangled them upstairs and into the bathtub. I successfully navigated the challenge of cleaning three rambunctious bodies and brushing three sets of teeth, all while they pretended to be a pod of whales at Sea World. Soaked and exhausted, we stumbled into the bedroom, where getting them dressed felt more like wrestling pigs in a mud pit than preparing children for bed. But we survived.
It was an ordinary night. As I dressed two of the boys, my youngest decided to let loose and peed all over the bed, much to the amusement of his brothers, who cackled like they were at a stand-up comedy show. I changed the sheets, cleaned up the mess, and took a deep breath.
Then came storytime, prayers, tucking them into their respective spots, showering them with kisses and “night night, I love you’s,” and finally, lights out—I was free! Or so I thought.
After a few rounds of “Mommy, I think I pooped; I’m thirsty; I forgot to give you a kiss,” I dove into my bed like a flying squirrel. Just as I got comfortable, my youngest began to cry. At nearly two years old, I no longer rush in at the first sound. Instead, I wait to gauge the seriousness of the situation.
Minutes passed, and his cries only grew louder. With a sigh, I begrudgingly got up, muttering under my breath in a tired, zombie-like state. When I reached his crib, I found him lying on his back, sleep-crying. There was nothing wrong; he wasn’t in pain, just fighting off sleep. I gently placed my hands on his cheeks to comfort him, and almost immediately, he closed his eyes and ceased crying.
Every time I attempted to pull away, his eyes would spring open, and the whimpering would start again. So I stayed there, hands on his face, for about five minutes until I was certain he was asleep. And then it hit me—the moment I began to unwind from the day’s chaos. The moment I remembered why I embrace this journey of motherhood. The moment every ounce of energy I had poured out returned to me.
Motherhood can be utterly exhausting, pushing us to our limits. There are days when we feel we have nothing left to give. Yet, there are those rare, beautiful moments—when time stands still, and everything clicks into place. In those quiet instances, like leaning over my son’s crib, holding his face until his eyelids flutter shut, I realize that all he needs is that simple touch to feel safe. All the noise and chaos, all the effort and love we invest, boils down to these moments of connection.
It’s easy to lose sight of what truly matters in the whirlwind of motherhood and in life. It’s tempting to speed through it all out of sheer exhaustion. But in that moment, with my hands on my little one’s soft cheeks—cheeks that will one day be strong and defined—I felt a profound sense of gratitude. Motherhood is a miraculous journey, filled with gifts that often go unnoticed.
What a joy it is to have the ability to soothe my son to sleep with just a gentle touch. What a privilege to be the one he calls for in the night. What a treasure to share one more kiss and utter “I love you” countless times before bed.
Parenting is tough, no doubt about it. But oh, is it worth every minute.
So, while it seemed like just another ordinary night, it served as a reminder that motherhood is anything but mundane. It’s extraordinary, and every little thing we do holds significance for our children.
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Summary:
Motherhood is filled with chaotic moments that can leave us feeling drained, but amidst the exhaustion, there are precious connections that remind us of the beauty of this journey. A typical night can transform into a moment of profound reflection and gratitude as we realize that our love and presence are what our children need most.
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