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Where are all the messy homes on social media? It’s hard to believe that everyone is living in perfectly styled spaces. Either I’m the only one with clutter, or most people are cleverly hiding their messes behind strategically angled photos. I can’t be the only one feeling this way. So, can we start embracing our messes to normalize the reality of living in less-than-perfect homes? This shift could significantly enhance our social media experience and reduce the pressure many of us feel.
Don’t get me wrong; I enjoy scrolling through beautifully curated Instagram feeds showcasing pristine kitchens and stylish decor. I dream of the day when I can have the furniture I adore without worrying that one of my kids will ruin it with a marker. But I long for a bit more authenticity in my feed.
For many parents, our homes are playgrounds, often in chaos thanks to our little ones. No matter how often I tidy up, it can feel like I’m living with a herd of wild animals. There are laundry piles in odd corners, toys strewn across the living room, and an endless scattering of shoes and socks.
We’ve become so accustomed to polished aesthetics that it’s easy to subconsciously believe we should meet those expectations. Yet, I want to see moms who aren’t afraid to display their messy homes; the ones who break away from the image of perfection and share a glimpse of their real lives. Those moms resonate with me.
I recognize that some moms take pride in maintaining spotless homes. I applaud their efforts, but that’s just not my forte. My message is for those who may hide their laundry behind closed doors or deal with sticky spots and an eternally full sink—you’re not alone!
As a mother of four, I find it nearly impossible to keep everything tidy at all times. Honestly, my house is a mess more often than not. Yes, my kids have chores and I encourage them to pitch in, yet there always seems to be some mess lurking around. I’ve accepted that balancing work, motherhood, and personal life leaves little time for a perfectly organized home.
And I refuse to feel guilty about it. I want to ensure that no mom looks at a perfectly polished home on social media and feels inadequate because her reality is different. Let’s unite and normalize what an everyday, lived-in home looks like.
What’s typical? A spot in your house where clean laundry accumulates, leading to frantic morning searches for clothes. I’m not suggesting this should be your goal, but plenty of moms can relate to rummaging through laundry baskets at 7 a.m. for clean underwear and mismatched socks.
What else is common? Picking up toys repeatedly throughout the day, only to find them scattered everywhere by bedtime. And those random cups that seem to multiply around the house? Not to mention that desk or counter piled high with papers until you finally find time to sort through it all.
And who doesn’t have a bit of wall art created by their little ones? I have a charming black marker drawing of a smiley face on my bathroom wall, courtesy of my youngest. Every home with kids likely has a few broken items—like a cracked mirror or a missing kitchen cabinet handle—and stains on the carpet or couch.
Let’s clarify: I’m not endorsing a filthy home. I’m advocating for honesty about the regular, everyday mess of family life. Everyone has different standards for cleanliness, but can we share the reality of our homes as they are? Let’s stop hiding the mess behind the camera or only capturing images in freshly cleaned spaces.
Perhaps if we all share our messy truths, we’ll feel a little less stressed and a little less like we’re failing to keep it together. The reality is, most parents aren’t living in spotless homes, and that’s okay. What truly makes a house a home is the love within it, not the shine on the kitchen sink. For more insights on similar topics, check out this post that dives deeper into the reality of parenting.
Summary
In a world dominated by curated social media feeds, it’s essential to recognize that most homes are not perfectly clean. Embracing the messiness of family life can alleviate the pressure many parents feel. By sharing our real experiences, we can foster a more authentic community that celebrates the beauty in the chaos of everyday living. Remember, it’s the love in our homes that counts, not the clutter.
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