As a fellow mom navigating the unique landscape of parenting an only child, I can relate to the head-scratching comments that often come our way. Here are eight remarks that can make us cringe, and why they miss the mark.
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You must have so much free time!
Oh, if only that were true! The reality is that being a mom, whether of one or many, comes with a full plate of responsibilities—cleaning, laundry, cooking, and keeping the little one entertained. I may not have the luxury of binge-watching shows on Netflix, but my time is certainly filled with fulfilling tasks. -
Isn’t having just one child a bit selfish?
Let’s unpack that. Choosing not to have another child doesn’t equate to selfishness. My focus is on providing a loving and nurturing environment for my daughter. Isn’t that what truly matters? -
Your poor child must feel lonely.
Loneliness isn’t exclusive to only children. Many siblings can feel isolated too! I’m confident that as my daughter grows, she’ll build friendships that will enrich her life beyond measure. -
Take it from me, having more is so much better.
I’m thrilled for you and your big family, but I’m equally content with my one child. Each family dynamic is unique, and I’m happy with the choice we’ve made. -
She’ll grow up spoiled and entitled.
Don’t we all have those fears as parents? It’s not a given that only children will be spoiled. I’m committed to raising her with empathy and gratitude, just like any parent would. -
Don’t you wish for a boy (or girl)?
My child is perfect just as she is—healthy, vibrant, and full of life. Gender doesn’t determine the happiness of our family. Every family is unique, and that’s what makes them special. -
What happens when you’re gone?
This is a heavy thought, and I prefer to focus on the positive. Having another child doesn’t guarantee they’ll get along. I hope my daughter will have a supportive network if she ever faces loss, because grief affects everyone, regardless of siblings. -
You really should have another; she’s too cute to be an only.
Yes, she’s amazing! But I didn’t realize that cuteness was a compelling reason to have more kids. We’re beyond satisfied with our family as it is.
While I’m open to the possibility of having another child in the future, for now, we’re thriving as a family of three. The challenges kids face today are vast, and being an only child is just one small part of the journey. We all have our own paths, and I’m grateful for the one we’re on.
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In summary, let’s embrace and support the choices that each mom makes, regardless of family size.
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