Leaving Kids in the Car for a Few Minutes Isn’t Child Abuse

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Recently, I found myself in a common parenting dilemma. While running into a local bakery, I left my two boys in the car for just a few minutes. My younger son was peacefully napping, and I didn’t want to disturb him or struggle with both kids while I grabbed a loaf of bread. With the windows opened and the car parked in the shade on a cool day, I dashed across the street, heart racing—not from fear of abduction or overheating, but from the anxiety of possibly being accused of neglect.

This fear isn’t unfounded. For many parents, the risk of being reported for child abuse looms larger than the real dangers. However, a recent ruling from New Jersey’s Supreme Court has shed light on this issue, reinforcing that leaving a child in a car for a brief period on a mild day does not automatically constitute abuse or neglect.

In the case that sparked this discussion, a mother known as S.M. left her toddler in the car on a cool 55-degree day while she quickly visited a Dollar Store. Upon her return, security had called the police, leading to an extensive legal battle. The court ruled unanimously, allowing her to plead her case and preventing her from being placed on the state’s Child Abuse and Neglect Registry, which can have lifelong repercussions for a parent’s career and reputation.

This is a significant win for parents. Too many individuals, like Jane Roberts, have faced legal action for leaving their children in a cool car for just a few minutes. The growing trend to penalize parents for every minor decision—even when the actual risk to the child is negligible—is troubling.

It’s crucial to clarify that no one is condoning leaving children in cars for extended periods, especially on hot days. Such incidents are indeed tragic and represent genuine neglect. However, as parenting advocate Lenore Skenazy notes, the majority of fatalities related to children left in cars happen when they are forgotten for hours or climb in without supervision. These situations are distinctly different from a parent making a quick errand.

The New Jersey Supreme Court acknowledged that parents can’t guarantee a risk-free environment for their children. Everyday activities—like swimming or driving—carry inherent risks, yet we don’t prosecute parents for these actions. As legal expert David Pimentel pointed out, it’s unreasonable to expect parents to navigate an environment where every decision is scrutinized, especially when the state intervenes based on 911 calls or police reports.

I’m relieved for S.M. and for Jane, who faced similar legal challenges. It’s disheartening that conscientious parents must endure such stress for making decisions they believe are safe. Reflecting on my own childhood, I remember waiting in the car for my mom without anyone batting an eye. Today, the fear of legal repercussions for innocent parenting choices is suffocating, making simple errands feel like a minefield.

In conclusion, the recent ruling is a step in the right direction, reminding us that parents should have the autonomy to decide what is safe for their children without the looming threat of legal action. We should be able to run into a bakery for a loaf of bread without fearing that someone will call the police.

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