What I Wish I Could Tell My First-Year-Teacher Self

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Reflecting on my initial year in teaching, I often wish I could reach back in time and share some hard-earned wisdom with my younger self. Here are some essential lessons that could have made that challenging year a bit smoother:

1. Lesson Plans Are Just a Guide: Expect that things won’t unfold as neatly as you’ve mapped out. Still, it’s important to create those plans—they provide a framework, even if they change drastically.
2. Your Principal Has a Heavy Load: Understand that your principal’s stern demeanor isn’t personal. She’s juggling a multitude of responsibilities, so don’t take it to heart.
3. Professional Attire Is a Challenge: Yes, dressing like an adult every day is tough. You might be bummed about reverting to your natural hair color and removing that tongue ring, but trust me, it’s a step in the right direction. And remember—Fridays are for jeans!
4. Navigating Principal Dynamics: If your principal does seem difficult, keep your focus on your work. A small gesture, like a chocolate treat, can go a long way in easing tensions.
5. Crying is Normal: You’re not alone if emotions run high during recess. Many teachers have been there, and it’s perfectly okay.
6. Find Your Teaching Buddy: Partner up with a fellow educator. You’ll find solace in each other, and some friendships can last for years, even decades.
7. Work-Life Balance is Key: The to-do list will never end, so prioritize what needs to be finished for the next day and then head home. You’ll return refreshed and ready to teach.
8. Prioritize Your Weekends: It’s vital to recharge. No, cutting out 200 laminated ladybug wings doesn’t count as fun. Instead, engage in activities that once brought you joy. And pass those ladybug wings to that eager parent who wants to help!
9. Your Students Have Lives Beyond School: Remember, you are a constant in their lives amidst their struggles. Your role is more significant than you realize.
10. Expect the Unexpected: You might face some wild situations—like being yelled at or even bitten. Keep in mind that it’s not about you; it’s part of the job.
11. Advice from Parents: When parents seek your input on their kids, don’t panic. You can offer valuable suggestions, even if you’re not a parent yourself. Just throw in a gentle reminder about eating more veggies!
12. Guard Your Snacks: That quirky colleague with the big hair is likely the one swiping your snacks. Invest in a mini fridge for your room; it’ll feel like a luxury.
13. Embrace Mistakes: Mistakes are learning opportunities, and they’ll prepare you for future challenges—like parenting twins!
14. Apologizing Matters: If you make a mistake with your students, don’t hesitate to apologize. It shows them you care and fosters a supportive classroom environment.
15. Be Prepared for Bodily Fluids: Yes, you may end up cleaning up some messes. Just try to keep your cool and remember—it’s all part of the adventure.
16. Keep an Eye on Your Class: If chaos ensues during transitions, adjust your position to maintain better oversight.
17. Seek Guidance from Veteran Teachers: Those experienced educators with their apple-themed attire can offer invaluable tips. Don’t shy away from their wisdom!
18. Borrow Ideas: Don’t hesitate to borrow creative ideas from your colleagues. They’ll likely appreciate sharing, and it can save you a lot of time.
19. Capture the Humor: Make sure to jot down the funny things your students say. These moments are priceless and often bring a smile when you need it most.
20. Know Your Limits: As a newbie, it might feel like you have to accept every committee role thrown your way. Remember, it’s okay to say no while you find your footing.
21. Acronyms Galore: The educational jargon can feel overwhelming. Just know that these terms will evolve, so don’t stress about memorizing all of them now.
22. Love These Kids: You won’t believe how deeply you’ll care for your students. They’ll challenge you in ways you never anticipated before 9 a.m. It’s all part of the incredible journey.

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In summary, the first year of teaching is filled with unexpected challenges and incredible rewards. Embrace each moment, learn from your experiences, and remember to care for yourself along the way.