As parents, it’s common to find ourselves clinging to our children’s childhood trinkets. But what drives us to preserve these items? Are we keeping them for the nostalgia of flipping through boxes filled with memories, or do we genuinely think our kids will cherish them when they’re older?
Imagine this: years from now, you hand your grown daughter a box filled with her childhood treasures. You expect her to be overjoyed, but instead, she recoils, exclaiming, “Ugh! Why do you have my baby teeth? That’s so weird! Who would want those?” Oops! Not the reaction you envisioned.
A friend of mine, Sarah, recently shared a similar experience (minus the baby teeth) when her father handed her an envelope containing her 45-year-old baby teeth. This made me ponder: if we’re curating our kids’ keepsakes for their future enjoyment, shouldn’t we be more discerning about what we save?
So, I embarked on a mission to declutter my home of random mementos. I viewed each item through the lens of whether my kids would actually want it someday. Here’s a glimpse of what I found that I’m certain my kids won’t miss:
- An unused newborn diaper (seriously, why did I save this?)
- 27 toddler-sized shirts (yep, you read that right—27!)
- Standardized test results from grades 4-8. Why did I think these would be useful for college applications?
- Two musical recorders from 4th grade. I didn’t enjoy their sounds then; why would I want to hear them again?
- Report cards spanning from kindergarten to high school. While I kept a few that made me smile, the rest went straight to the recycling bin.
- An overwhelming collection of artwork. Admittedly, I didn’t take photos of every piece, and let’s be real—how many can I really appreciate?
That said, I’m not heartless. There are certainly items I’ll hold onto, like photos, playbills, newspaper clippings, locks of hair, heartfelt handmade cards, cherished books, and a select few toys.
I refuse to part with all their toys. My mom gave away my beloved Barbie dolls when I left for college, and I was heartbroken! In her defense, they had been untouched for years, but that didn’t lessen my despair. As it turns out, the one Barbie I salvaged was quickly disassembled by my boys, but still…
To ensure my kids have a say in what stays or goes, I let them sift through my pile of items for tossing. Surprisingly, they wanted nothing from the heap—not even their baby teeth. “Ew! Why would I want those?” my youngest replied, echoing my initial thoughts.
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In summary, as we navigate the journey of parenthood, it’s essential to reflect on what memorabilia we truly want to keep for our kids. Let’s be thoughtful about the treasures we preserve, ensuring they are meaningful and cherished.
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