Ah, the transition from little girl to tween is a journey that every mother of a daughter knows all too well. It feels like just yesterday I was wrangling with diaper changes and endless episodes of cartoons. Now, I’m navigating the delightful chaos that comes with raising a tween. It’s a mix of nostalgia and the occasional exasperation, but I wouldn’t trade it for the world. Here are ten things that only a mother of a tween girl can truly understand.
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Earbuds: The New Must-Have Accessory
“WHAT?!” she exclaims, her focus locked on her iPod Touch. After calling her name multiple times, it feels like I need to use a megaphone to finally grab her attention. Those earbuds are plugged in faster than you can say “school’s out,” and I’m left wondering if I even exist sometimes. -
Minecraft Mania
Remember when she was all about playing Minecraft? Now, it’s all about watching Minecraft YouTube stars like JoeCraft and CraftyKatie. I’m grateful for those earbuds, but my ears can only take so much of, “HELLOOO, this is JOECRAFT!!!” Thank goodness for the occasional peace and quiet! -
Best Friends and Frenemies
One minute, Susie is her best friend; the next, she’s public enemy number one. I can’t keep up with the drama. “What happened?” I ask, and she insists it’s a matter of life or death. Just another day in the world of tween friendships, where everything is intense and fleeting. -
The Shaving Dilemma
When did shaving legs become a conversation for nine-year-olds? I remember sneaking my mom’s razor, and that was a disaster. Now, after a comment from a classmate, my daughter is insistent about shaving. I realized it’s her body, her choice, and I can’t avoid this one forever. -
Movie Marathons
An upside to having a tween girl? So many movies that we both want to watch. The downside? You guessed it—there’s still the same number of movies we both want to see! It’s a double-edged sword, but I suppose it’s better than the endless kid movies. -
The Hugging Stage
Though she’s no longer a little girl, my tween isn’t quite in the “don’t touch me” phase yet. Random hugs in the kitchen and goodnight cuddles are still on the table. I cherish these moments, knowing they won’t last forever. -
Sharp Opinions and Wit
Gone are the days of simple, childlike conversations. My tween is clever and full of opinions about everything. It’s exhausting and impressive at the same time, as she often challenges my decisions with well-formed arguments that I can’t help but admire. -
Baby Fever
Tweens have an undeniable love for little ones. Whenever my daughter is around babies, she lights up, and I know our friends are grateful for the built-in babysitter. Deep down, I sense she wishes for a sibling, but I’m content with our family of four, thank you very much. -
Sleep Patterns
After years of early morning wake-ups, our family has finally embraced the joy of sleep. My tween still heads to bed at a reasonable hour but sleeps in like a champ. This newfound peace means I can enjoy my coffee in peace for a couple of hours on weekends. -
Nostalgia Overload
The fashion styles from my middle school years are making a comeback! As my daughter discovers off-the-shoulder shirts and retro shows, I find myself reminiscing about my own awkward teenage years. It’s a sweet, yet eye-rolling experience as I hear her exclaim, “Mom, you won’t believe what just happened in this episode!”
Raising a tween girl is a rollercoaster of emotions and experiences. From the eye-rolls and the “yeah, buts…” to the heartfelt moments, I appreciate her adventurous spirit and the confidence she exudes. It’s a wild ride, but one that I wouldn’t trade for anything.
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Summary:
Raising a tween girl comes with its unique set of challenges and moments of joy. From navigating friendships to embracing newfound independence, every day is an adventure. With a mix of nostalgia and excitement, mothers can find comfort in the shared experiences of this transformative stage.
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