We all know that pregnancy takes a toll on our bodies, but I’m convinced it also messes with our brains. Not only have I been struck by “Momnesia,” but I’ve also become an emotional wreck since welcoming my little ones into the world.
In my pre-mom life, I prided myself on being the strong, stable figure everyone could rely on; tears were a rarity for me. While crying can be therapeutic, it often made me feel vulnerable and out of control, so I’d save my tears for the sanctuary of my shower.
Fast forward to motherhood, and it seems I’ve misplaced my emotional armor. I cry at the drop of a hat, especially when it involves my children. Honestly, I’m just a few sobs away from starring in a cheesy Hallmark movie. Here are a few things that have brought me to tears in just the past month—let me grab my tissues first!
- Pampers Commercials – The marketing geniuses behind these ads deserve a medal! The first rule of sales is to forge an emotional connection, and Pampers nails it. Despite my dedication to cloth diapering, these commercials make me want to run out and buy Pampers. Those adorable babies and heartfelt moments—cue the tears!
- Lysol Commercial – An online video about bringing home a newborn popped up in my feed and transported me back to the day my first son was born. The look of sheer awe on my husband’s face mirrored my own: “Whoa, my heart just exploded! What do we do now?” I’m seriously getting misty-eyed just writing this!
- My Son’s Sweet Words – Occasionally, my older son surprises me with a “present.” When I ask what it is, he beams and says, “I love you, Mommy.” That simple gesture sends me into a waterfall of tears.
- Cleaning Out Baby Clothes – My youngest just celebrated his first birthday, which meant it was time to sort through all those tiny clothes. I found myself ugly crying over little onesies, knowing I wouldn’t use them again.
- Selling Baby Gear – The emotional upheaval was the same as above. I had to wrestle my hand off the Jumperoo—my heart just didn’t want to let it go.
- Haircut Hassle – As a type-A personality, I like to stay on schedule. When I took my son for a haircut and was told there would be a 45-minute wait, I lost it in the car. I ended up cutting his hair myself, which was definitely a mistake.
- Decorating the Tree Together – This year, my son really grasped the holiday spirit. We hung ornaments together, and afterward, I found myself crying. For reasons I still can’t articulate!
- Watching My Baby Grow – Every time I glance at my little one in his crib, I’m struck by how quickly he’s growing. He’s shedding his “baby-ness,” and it tugs at my heartstrings.
- Stories of Children in Distress – Whenever I come across a news story about a child who is sick or hurt, I break down. Why do I torture myself by reading these stories when I know it’ll just make me cry?
- My “Baby” is Now a Toddler – The email from Baby Center labeling him as a toddler was the final straw. I lost it.
Sometimes, I can’t help but chuckle at myself once I realize what made me cry. What is it about motherhood that opens the floodgates of tears we once had under control? Do our hormones ever stabilize? Or should I just accept that I’ll be carrying tissues in my pocket for the foreseeable future? If you want to read more about the ups and downs of motherhood, check out this insightful post on Cervical Insemination.
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In summary, motherhood has transformed me into a more emotional person, and I’ve realized that it’s perfectly okay to embrace these feelings.
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