Hey there, new moms! Before you get defensive, let’s chat about some things that might be a bit tough to swallow. I promise I’m coming from a place of compassion and understanding. You need to hear these truths because, honestly, your friends might not have the courage to say them—and let’s be real, you could use a reality check right now (and maybe a shower, too). So, let’s dive in.
5 Essential Truths New Moms Should Know:
- Step Away from the Screen
Seriously, take a break from the Internet—especially Facebook. That baby you’re worried about? No, they don’t have that super rare illness you read about. And you definitely don’t need to see a post about a mom who forgot her baby in the car or a raccoon breaking in to snatch her infant. Trust me, people have successfully raised kids without the help of social media for centuries. Instead, reach out to a friend who can offer real advice rather than scrolling through a feed full of negativity. - Your Baby Won’t Win Any Contests
I know your little one is the cutest in your eyes, but please don’t expect anyone to vote for them in that adorable baby contest. Send the link to your parents, and if they can figure out how to vote, great! But the reality is, they’re probably the only ones who care enough to cast a vote. You just saved yourself from a dash of embarrassment. You’re welcome! - Honey, You Might Smell
A wise friend once told me, “If you think you smell bad, it’s probably true.” It’s no surprise; between hormones, sleep deprivation, and maybe a few skipped showers, it’s easy to get a bit ripe. So take a moment for yourself and indulge in a nice, refreshing shower. You deserve it. - Feeling a Bit Off? That’s Normal
If you’re feeling a bit out of sorts, that’s completely okay. This is a whirlwind of emotions—excitement, fear, anxiety, and exhaustion—all mixed with fluctuating hormones. It’s totally fine to feel a little crazy right now. This is why stepping away from Facebook is crucial; focus on your beautiful baby and have a good cry if you need it—in the privacy of your own shower, of course. - You’re Doing a Great Job
You will eventually feel like yourself again—just not today. I remember walking through the store, watching others go about their lives and wondering if I’d ever feel normal again. Will I ever enjoy a glass of wine? Will I get a solid night’s sleep? Yes, you will. You’ll find your rhythm and a new normal; it just takes time.
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Summary
Embrace the chaos, take the advice from others, and focus on your own well-being. It’s okay to feel overwhelmed; you’re not alone. Remember, this phase won’t last forever. Enjoy your little one and give yourself a break!
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