If you’re looking for a refreshing break from the overly polished and often discouraging social media feeds, take a moment to scroll through Emily Carter’s posts. The mother of two, married to professional athlete Jake Thompson, has openly shared her experiences, such as live-tweeting her breast-pumping journey on an airplane. On Instagram, she humorously displayed her swollen pregnancy ankles, even earning a delightful reaction from fellow mom influencer Mia Parker. During the 2020 elections, she donned an American flag onesie to roller skate and campaign for her candidate of choice. Because — why not?
Carter has successfully navigated a balance that many of her contemporaries struggle to find: she’s relatable, witty, and joyfully candid while maintaining a strong sense of privacy. Notably, she has never revealed the faces of her children, Max, 5, and Lily, 3. However, she isn’t shy about posting a picture of Thompson dressed as a beloved animated character.
“It’s challenging because I want to share everything — there are so many funny moments and stories I’d love to post,” she admits.
Amid home renovations, Carter and Thompson have been sheltering in place with their family, only emerging to host events for their charity, which supports youth in underprivileged communities: “We recently held a major fundraiser to assist families during these school closures,” she shared in conversation with Home Insemination Kit.
Let’s dive into the inevitable question: how is lockdown treating you with two little ones at home?
Max just turned five and Lily will be three soon. Since March, they haven’t been in school, and it’s been quite the challenge. They’re really feeling the isolation. Max often says, ‘I just want to make a friend! Can anyone be my friend?’ It’s heartbreaking and frustrating. We’re currently in North Carolina, mainly staying at home.
It’s impressive that your kids are leading relatively normal lives while remaining anonymous. How do you manage that in the public eye?
I have friends who are celebrities and feel pressured to share their children because otherwise, they risk constant media attention, which could endanger their privacy. Thankfully, that isn’t our issue, so we want our kids to have a choice. What goes online is part of their digital footprint, and I want them to control that. I love sharing my parenting experiences because they’re often funny, but I try to keep my kids out of it.
How do you approach discipline in your household?
Every child is different. Max responds well to reasoning, whereas Lily can be a handful. With her, it often boils down to empty threats, like saying I’ll throw away her toys if she doesn’t listen. I definitely use those threats. I admire her stubbornness, but it can be really challenging at times.
In many respects, I relate to them on a childlike level, which can be helpful, although it sometimes leads to chaos. I vividly remember the emotions I felt as a kid, particularly my fears, and that helps me empathize with what they’re going through. Andy often says I’m wise beyond my years, but still have a childlike spirit.
How do you and Jake support each other in parenting?
We might not see eye to eye on everything in life, but we are incredibly aligned when it comes to discipline and what we will tolerate from the kids. We didn’t plan it, but it just clicked. There’s never been a time when we’ve disagreed on parenting decisions. He’s been supportive through all my career changes, always saying, ‘We’ll figure it out together.’ We’re very good at stepping in for each other when one of us needs a break.
And without getting sentimental, thank you for your efforts in encouraging voter participation. You truly impacted our children’s future.
As a liberal, I believe that the Trump presidency sparked a wave of activism among many who were previously apathetic. Numerous women got involved in politics and started voting. I felt a responsibility to act and advocate, even if it meant losing followers.
What’s the latest on your Netflix series, Grace & Frankie? Are there plans to resume filming soon?
Production was halted in March, and we were supposed to return in November, but that’s been pushed to summer now. It’s the right decision. Other productions have resumed, and we can learn from their experiences to ensure safety.
This article was originally published on December 18, 2020.
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