Dear Moms,
It’s not every day you receive a message from the past, but in a way, that’s what karma is all about—a topic I often discussed with you during your upbringing. This isn’t a letter filled with “I told you so” remarks; instead, it’s a heartfelt request for you to embrace empathy in raising my grandchildren. I truly believe that the most effective parenting stems from understanding what your children are experiencing. It’s a blend of empathy and discipline, which I like to call “Empapline”—a term that, ironically, sounds like a medication, but fits perfectly.
When you notice your kids engaging in the same behaviors that once drove you up the wall, take a moment to recall what you were feeling back then. For instance, when their rooms resemble a tornado aftermath, try to remember when I’d remind you to “always leave a room better than you found it.” You may recall those summers when you spent time with your father, and I would lament how the house would get progressively tidier when you were away, only for chaos to ensue upon your return. I must have come across as quite the nag!
When your little ones nod along as you speak but then do the exact opposite, know that you’re not alone in feeling the pressure build to an unbearable level. Try to empathize with my beloved grandchildren when they don’t jump at the chance to partake in your exciting proposals. Their reaction may seem apathetic, but deep down, you know what’s going on.
Exercise patience when they transform minor disagreements into epic battles over a simple glance. You understand their struggles and can diffuse the situation before it escalates. Similarly, when you hear “I didn’t do it!” or “It wasn’t me!”—words all mothers are familiar with—take a deep breath. These phrases are as universal as they are frustrating.
Rest assured, my grandchildren won’t be wishing for a different mother or suggesting that life is better elsewhere. When the teenage years roll around and half-truths start surfacing, try not to feel too betrayed; they’re likely just trying to protect you from unnecessary worry.
Stay calm when your little darlings complain about having “nothing to eat” for breakfast, despite a fridge full of options. What they really mean is that they’re craving something quick and unhealthy. Understanding their language is key.
Don’t lose hope when your children repeat the same question multiple times in a short span. The unspoken rule of “no” has a surprisingly short shelf life—about 12 minutes, until they reach 16.
Keep pushing through, dear mothers. You have grown into strong, capable women, and I couldn’t be prouder. Despite the challenges, the sun will shine through, and your children, my grandchildren, will thrive. After all, you turned out beautifully.
Karma may pop in from time to time, but she’ll eventually take a break, only to return with renewed energy. Just remember: Empapline. When you see me smiling serenely, know that my heart is filled with love and admiration for both you and my grandchildren. And yes, I’m probably chuckling inside.
With love,
Mom
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Summary:
This open letter encourages mothers to practice empathy while raising their children, recalling the challenges of parenting and emphasizing the importance of understanding kids’ perspectives. It offers support and reassurance, reminding mothers of their strengths and the eventual rewards of their efforts.
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